THE

MAWU

KUFUNA

(Yamaliza)

NTCHITO ndi mtengo womwe lamulo limafuna kwa iye amene akanakhala ndi kusangalala ndi zabwino zomwe akufuna. Kuti akhale kapena apeze zabwino zilizonse, munthu ayenera kugwirira ntchito zomwe akufuna pa ndege yapadera komanso kudziko komwe kuli. Ili ndi lamulo.

Kuti apeze ndikusangalala ndi chilichonse m'dziko lanyama munthu ayenera kuchita zomwe zikufunika kuti izi zitheke mdziko lanyama. Zomwe amachita kuti apeze, ziyenera kukhala molingana ndi malamulo adziko lapansi. Ngati akufuna chinthu chilichonse chakuthupi, koma sachita china choposa kungofuna kuchipeza, motero kuchita motsutsana ndi lamulo, angapeze zomwe akufuna, koma mosakayikira zidzatsatiridwa ndi zokhumudwitsa, chisoni, mavuto ndi tsoka. Sangaswe lamulo potsutsana nalo, kapena kulizemba polizungulira.

Kukhumba ndi chisonyezero cha chikhumbo chofuna kupeza chinachake pachabe. Kuyesera kupeza chinachake pachabe, n'kosaloleka, kosalungama, ndipo ndi umboni wa kupanda mphamvu ndi kusayenera. Chikhulupiriro chakuti munthu angapeze chinachake pachabe, kapena angapeze phindu lalikulu ndi pang'ono, ndi chinyengo chomwe ambiri amavutika nacho, ndipo ndi nyambo ndi msampha umene umayesa munthu kuchita zinthu zosaloledwa ndi lamulo ndipo amamumanga mkaidi pambuyo pake. Anthu ambiri amadziwa kuti sangapeze zambiri ndi zochepa, komabe, wonyenga wochenjera akakoloweka nyambo yamtengo wapatali pang’ono, amangoimeza. Akadakhala opanda chinyengo sakanagwidwa. Koma chifukwa chakuti amalakalaka kupeza chinachake pachabe, kapenanso kuchuluka kwa ndalama zimene angapeze ndi zochepa zimene angapereke, amagwa m’misampha yoteroyo. Kukhumbira ndi gawo lachinyengo ichi, ndipo kulakalaka kumatsatiridwa ndi zotsatira zenizeni kumakhala koopsa kwambiri kuposa kungoganizira m'matangadza ndi njira zina zobetcha ndi njuga. Kupeza chikhumbo popanda kuchita zambiri kuposa kungofuna, ndi nyambo yomwe imatsogolera wofuna kukhulupirira kuti angakwaniritse zofuna zake popanda ntchito.

Lamulo lachilengedwe lathupi limafuna kuti thupi lidye, kugaya ndikudya chakudya chake komanso kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi, ngati tikufuna thanzi. Munthu angafune kukhala ndi thanzi labwino ndi mpweya uliwonse, koma ngati akukana kudya, kapena ngati adya koma thupi lake silikugaya chakudya chimene amaikamo, kapena ngati akana kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi nthawi zonse komanso apakati, sadzakhala ndi thanzi. Zotsatira zakuthupi zimapezedwa ndikusangalatsidwa kokha ndi zovomerezeka, zadongosolo, zakuthupi.

Lamulo lomweli limagwiranso ntchito ku zilakolako ndi chikhalidwe chamalingaliro. Iye amene amafuna kuti ena am’patse chikondi chawo ndi kukhutiritsa zikhumbo zake, koma akupereka chikondi chochepa pobwezera ndipo osalingalira za phindu lawo, adzataya chikondi chawo, ndi kukanidwa. Kungofuna kukhala wamphamvu komanso kukhala ndi mphamvu zapamwamba sikungabweretse mphamvu. Kuti munthu akhale ndi mphamvu pakuchitapo kanthu ayenera kugwira ntchito ndi zokhumba zake. Pokhapokha pogwira ntchito ndi zilakolako zake, kuti azilamulira ndi kuzilamulira, adzapeza mphamvu.

Lamuloli limafuna kuti munthu agwire ntchito ndi mphamvu zake zamaganizo kuti akule ndikukula. Munthu amene akufuna kukhala munthu wamalingaliro ndi zidziwitso, koma osagwiritsa ntchito malingaliro ake kudzera m'malingaliro, sadzakhala ndi kukula kwamalingaliro. Iye sangakhale ndi mphamvu zamaganizo popanda ntchito yamaganizo.

Kulakalaka zinthu zauzimu sikungawathandize. Kuti munthu akhale wa mzimu, ayenera kugwirira ntchito mzimu. Kuti munthu apeze chidziwitso chauzimu ayenera kugwira ntchito ndi chidziwitso chochepa chauzimu chimene ali nacho, ndipo chidziwitso chake chauzimu chidzawonjezeka mogwirizana ndi ntchito yake.

Zokhudza thupi ndi zamaganizo, zamaganizo ndi zauzimu za munthu zonse ndi zogwirizana, ndipo mbali zosiyanasiyana za chikhalidwe chake zimagwira ntchito iliyonse mu dziko limene iye ali. Thupi lathupi la munthu limagwira ntchito ndipo ndi ladziko lapansi. Zokhumba zake kapena malingaliro ake amagwira ntchito muzamatsenga kapena dziko la astral. Malingaliro ake kapena mfundo yake yoganiza ndiyomwe imayambitsa malingaliro ndi zinthu zonse m'malingaliro, zotsatira zake zimawonedwa m'maiko otsika. Umunthu wake wauzimu wosakhoza kufa ndi umene umadziwa ndikulimbikira mu dziko lauzimu. Maiko apamwamba amafikira, kuzungulira, kuthandizira ndi kukhudza dziko lapansi, monga momwe mfundo zapamwamba za munthu zimachitira ndi zokhudzana ndi thupi lake lanyama. Munthu akadziwa ndi kuganiza ndi zokhumba mkati mwa thupi lake, mfundo izi zimagwira ntchito, iliyonse m'dziko lake, ndikubweretsa zotsatira zina zomwe aliyense amachitira pa dziko lililonse.

Kulakalaka kwachabechabe kwa munthu wachabechabe sikuchita m'maiko onse, koma kufuna kwamphamvu kwa munthu wolimbikira kumakhudza maiko onse. Munthu amene amachita zolakalaka zopanda pake samachita zinthu zakuthupi chifukwa thupi lake silinagwire ntchito, komanso samachita zinthu zauzimu chifukwa sali wotsimikiza mokwanira ndipo sachita mwachidziwitso. Wolakalaka wopanda pake amangoyendayenda ndi zilakolako zake muzamatsenga kapena astral, ndikulola malingaliro ake kuseweredwa ndi zinthu zomwe zilakolako zake zikuwonetsa. Lingaliro ili ndi zinthu zomwe amalakalaka m'kupita kwa nthawi kumabweretsa zotsatira zakuthupi, kuphatikiza ulesi wa thupi ndi malingaliro omwe amabwera chifukwa cholakalaka zopanda pake, ndipo zotsatira zakuthupi zimagwirizana ndi kusamveka kwa lingaliro lake.

Kukhumbira kwamphamvu kwa munthu wolimbikira amene akufuna modzikonda kuti akwaniritse zilakolako zake kapena zilakolako za zosangalatsa, zimakhudza maiko onse kudzera m'mbali zosiyanasiyana za chikhalidwe chake zomwe zimakhudzidwa ndi chikhumbo chake cholimbikira. Pamene munthu watsala pang’ono kuyamba kulimbikira kulakalaka chinthu chosagwirizana ndi lamulo, umunthu wake wauzimu amene akudziwa kuti walakwa ndipo mawu ake ndi Chikumbumtima chake amati: “Ayi. ndi zolinga zake zovomerezeka. Koma munthu wolimbikira kukhumba kaŵirikaŵiri samvera chikumbumtima. Iye amagontha makutu ake kwa izo, ndipo akunena kuti nkoyenera kwa iye kukhala ndi zomwe akufuna ndi zomwe, monga akunena, zidzamupangitsa kukhala wosangalala. Pamene chidziŵitso cha umunthu wauzimu monga chinalengezedwa ndi chikumbumtima chikukanidwa ndi munthuyo, chikumbumtima chimakhala chete. Chidziwitso chomwe chikapereka chimakanidwa ndi munthu, ndipo umunthu wake wauzimu ukusonyezedwa kunyozedwa. Kachitidwe kotere ka maganizo ka munthu kumasokoneza kapena kumadula kulankhulana pakati pa kuganiza kwake ndi umunthu wake wauzimu, ndipo umunthu wauzimu mu dziko lauzimu umapangitsa kuti dziko lauzimu litsekedwe molingana ndi munthu ameneyo. Pamene malingaliro ake akutembenukira ku zinthu za zilakolako zomwe iye amazifunira, lingaliro lake lomwe likuchita mu dziko lamalingaliro limatembenuza malingaliro onse mudziko lamalingaliro olumikizidwa ndi chikhumbo chake kuzinthu zomwe amazifunira komanso zomwe zili kutali ndi dziko lauzimu. Malingaliro ake ndi zilakolako zake zimagwira ntchito muzamatsenga kapena dziko la astral ndikukopa malingaliro ake ku chinthu kapena chinthu chomwe akufuna. Zokhumba zake ndi maganizo ake zimanyalanyaza zinthu zonse zomwe zingasokoneze kupeza zofuna zake, ndipo mphamvu zake zonse zimakhazikika pakupeza. Dziko lanyama limakhudzidwa ndi zilakolako ndi malingaliro omwe amachitira chinthu china chofunidwa, ndipo ntchito zina zakuthupi kapena zinthu zimakanidwa, kugwetsedwa kapena kusokonezedwa mpaka chokhumbacho chikwaniritsidwe.

Nthaŵi zina, munthu amene wayamba kulakalaka amaona m’kupita kwa nthaŵi kuti ndi bwino kusaumirira, ndi kusiya zimene akufunazo. Akamaliza kusiya chifukwa akuona kuti n’zopanda nzeru kwa iye, kapena kuti n’kwabwino kuti apeze zimene akufunazo mwa khama lovomerezeka ndiponso ndi mafakitale, wasankha mwanzeru, ndipo mwa chosankha chake waphwanya chikhumbo chake. ndikusintha mphamvu zake kukhala njira zapamwamba komanso zabwinoko.

Kuzungulira kwa chikhumbo ndi njira kuyambira pachiyambi cha chikhumbo mpaka kumapeto kwake popeza zomwe mukufuna. Palibe chinthu chomwe chimafunidwa chomwe chimapezedwa pokhapokha kudzera mumpikisano wathunthu wolakalaka. Njira iyi kapena bwalo lolakalaka limayamba padziko lapansi komanso pa ndege ya dziko lapansi kumene chinthu chofunidwa chidzapezeka, ndipo kuzungulira kumatsirizidwa ndi kupeza chinthu chomwe chikufunidwa, chomwe chidzakhala m'dziko lomwelo ndi ndege. kumene kufuna kunayambira. Chinthu chimene munthu amachifunira nthawi zambiri chimakhala chimodzi mwa zinthu zosawerengeka za dziko lapansi; koma asanachipeze ayenera kukhazikitsa mphamvu zogwirira ntchito m'dziko lamaganizidwe ndi zamizimu, zomwe zimachita zakuthupi ndikubweretsa kwa iye zomwe akufuna.

Kuzungulira kwa chikhumbo chakechi kungafanizidwe ndi mzere wa mphamvu ya maginito ndi yamagetsi yotuluka kunja kwa thupi lake ndikupitiriza, mwa kulakalaka ndi kuganiza, kupyolera mu dziko la psychic ndi maganizo ndi kubwereranso kupyolera mu izi, ndiyeno chinthu cha chikhumbo chimapangidwa mu chinthu chakuthupi, chomwe ndi kutha kapena kukwaniritsidwa kwa kuzungulira kwa kukhumba. Zauzimu ndi zamaganizidwe ndi zamatsenga za munthu zili mkati ndikulumikizana ndi thupi lake lanyama, ndipo chilichonse chimakhudzidwa ndi zikoka ndi zinthu zadziko lapansi. Zokonda ndi zinthu izi zimagwira ntchito pathupi lake lanyama, ndipo thupi lanyama limakhudzidwa ndi chikhalidwe chake chamatsenga, ndipo umunthu wake wamatsenga umachita pamalingaliro ake, ndipo malingaliro ake amatengera umunthu wake wauzimu.

Zinthu ndi zokoka za dziko lapansi zimagwira ntchito pathupi lake ndipo zimakhudza zokhumba zake ndi momwe amamvera kudzera mu ziwalo zake zakuthupi. Zokhudzira zimasangalatsa zilakolako zake, pamene zimafotokoza zomwe zazindikira kudzera mu ziwalo zawo zakuthupi. Chikhumbo chake chimafuna kuti kaganizidwe kake kakhale ndi nkhawa ndikupeza zomwe akufuna. Mfundo yoganiza imakhudzidwa ndi zopempha zomwe zimapangidwa, malinga ndi chikhalidwe chawo ndi khalidwe lawo ndipo nthawi zina cholinga chomwe amafunira. Lingaliro loganiza silingalepheretse munthu wauzimu kuzindikira chikhalidwe cha malingaliro ake pachiyambi cha chikhumbo chake. Ngati zinthu zofunidwa zili za ubwino wa thupi munthu wauzimu samaletsa mfundo yoganiza kuti adziloŵetse m’maganizo kuti apeze zinthu zimenezo. Koma ngati zokhumba ziri zosayenera, kapena ngati maganizo ali otsutsana ndi malamulo a maganizo ndi amatsenga, munthu wauzimu amati, Ayi.

Kuzungulira kwa kulakalaka kumayamba pamene zokhudzira zanena za chinthu china padziko lapansi chomwe chikhumbocho chimafuna komanso chomwe lingaliro limachita nalo. Ma psychic ndi malingaliro amunthu amalembetsa zokhumbazo ponena kuti: Ndikufuna kapena ndikukhumba izi kapena chinthucho. Kenako malingaliro amachita kuchokera kudziko lamaganizidwe pa chinthu cha atomiki, nkhani ya moyo, ndi malingaliro opitilirabe kuchitapo kanthu kumayendetsa kapena kukakamiza moyo kukhala momwe zilakolako zake zimafunira. Moyo ukangotengeka ndi malingaliro, zilakolako kapena chikhalidwe cha psychic cha munthu chimayamba kukoka mawonekedwe osawonekawo. Chikoka ichi ndi mphamvu yogwiritsidwa ntchito mofanana ndi kukopa komwe kuli pakati pa maginito ndi chitsulo chomwe imakoka. Pamene ganizo la munthu ndi chikhumbo chake chikupitirira, iwo amachita kupyolera mu malingaliro ndi psychic kapena astral dziko pa malingaliro ndi chikhalidwe cha maganizo a anthu ena. Malingaliro ake ndi zokhumba zake zimalozeredwa pakupeza zomwe akufuna, ndipo nthawi zambiri zimakhala choncho kuti ena amakakamizika ndi kuganiza kwake kosalekeza ndi kufuna kutsata kapena kuvomereza malingaliro ake ndi chikhumbo chofuna kukwaniritsa zomwe akufuna, ngakhale akudziwa. sayenera kutero. Pamene chikhumbocho chiri champhamvu mokwanira ndi kulimbikira mokwanira chidzachotsa mphamvu za moyo ndi zilakolako za ena zomwe zimasokoneza kubweretsa chikhumbo kukhala mawonekedwe. Chotero, ngakhale kuti chikhumbocho chimasokoneza kachitidwe kanthaŵi zonse ka miyoyo ya ena kapena katundu kapena katundu wa ena, chinthu chokhumbiridwacho chidzapezedwa pamene wochifunayo ali wolimbikira ndi wamphamvu mokwanira. Ngati ali wamphamvu ndi wolimbikira mokwanira nthawi zonse padzakhala anthu omwe karma yawo yakale idzawalola kuti akopeke nawo ndikutumikira monga njira yokhutiritsa chikhumbo chake. Kotero kuti pamapeto pake apeze chimene iye ankachifuna. Chikhumbo chake cha icho chakakamiza mfundo yake yolingalira kusunga kachitidwe kake m’dziko lamaganizo; kuganiza kwake mfundo yachita pa moyo ndi maganizo a ena kupyolera mu dziko maganizo; chikhumbo chake chakokera pa chinthu chomwe chikufuna ndi chomwe ena amakopeka ndi malingaliro awo kukhala njira yoperekera; ndipo, potsiriza, chinthu chakuthupi ndi mapeto a kuzungulira kapena ndondomeko ya zokhumba zake zomwe amakumana nazo. Kuzungulira kwa chikhumbo kunasonyezedwa ndi munthu amene anafuna madola zikwi ziwiri (monga momwe zafotokozedwera mu “Kufuna” mu kope lomaliza la Mawu.) “Ndikufuna madola zikwi ziŵiri zokha, ndipo ndikukhulupirira kuti ngati ndipitirizabe kulakalaka ndidzalandira. . . . Sindisamala momwe zimakhalira, koma ndikufuna madola zikwi ziwiri. . . . Ndikukhulupirira kuti ndipeza. ” Ndipo iye anatero.

Madola 2,000 ndi ndalama zomwe ankafuna komanso maganizo ake. Ziribe kanthu momwe angapezere, ankafuna madola zikwi ziwiri ndi nthawi yochepa kwambiri. Ndithudi, iye sanalingalire kapena kulakalaka kuti apeze madola zikwi ziŵirizo mwa kuchititsa kuti mwamuna wake afe ndi kulandira ndalama zimene anapatsidwa inshuwalansi. Koma imeneyo ndiye inali njira yophweka kapena yaifupi kwambiri yopezera ndalamazo; ndipo kotero, pamene malingaliro ake adasunga madola zikwi ziwiri pakuwona adasokoneza mafunde a moyo ndipo izi zidachitapo kanthu pa moyo wa mwamuna wake, ndipo kutayika kwa mwamuna wake kunali mtengo womwe adalipira kuti apeze zofuna zake.

Wofuna mwachangu nthawi zonse amalipira mtengo pazofuna zilizonse zomwe angafune. Ndithudi, chikhumbo chimenechi cha madola zikwi ziŵiri sichikanachititsa imfa ya mwamuna wa mkaziyo ngati lamulo la moyo wake silinamulole. Koma imfayo idafulumizitsidwa ndi chikhumbo champhamvu cha mkazi wake, ndipo idaloledwa chifukwa chosowa zinthu zacholinga chokhala ndi moyo zomwe zikanakaniza zisonkhezero zomwe zidabweretsa pa iye kuti athetse mathero ake. Ngati lingaliro lake likadakana mphamvu zomwe zidabweretsa imfa yake, izi sizikanalepheretsa munthu wofunitsitsa kupeza zomwe akufuna. Mphamvu zamaganizo ndi moyo zinkatsatira njira zochepetsera kukana ndi kutembenuzidwa ndi lingaliro la munthu mmodzi lomwe adapeza likuwonetsedwa ndi ena, mpaka zotsatira zomwe ankafuna zitapezedwa.

Komanso njira yotsimikizika yokhumbira, yomwe wofunayo amapezerapo chinthu chomwe akufuna, pali nthawi kapena nthawi pakati pa kupanga ndi kupeza zomwe akufuna. Nthawi imeneyi, yayitali kapena yaifupi, imadalira kuchuluka kwake komanso kuchuluka kwa chikhumbo chake komanso mphamvu ndi chitsogozo cha lingaliro lake. Njira yabwino kapena yoyipa yomwe chinthucho chimabwera kwa yemwe akuchifuna, ndi zotsatira zomwe zimatsatira kuti apeze, nthawi zonse zimaganiziridwa ndi cholinga chachikulu chomwe chinalola kapena kuchititsa kuti chikhumbocho chichitike.

Zopanda ungwiro zimakhalapo nthawi zonse mwakufuna kwa aliyense. Pofuna chinthu chomwe akufuna, wofunayo amasiya kuona kapena sadziwa zotsatira zomwe zingakhalepo kapena zomwe zidzachitike pokwaniritsa zofuna zake. Kusazindikira kapena kuiwala zotulukapo zomwe zitha kukhalapo pakulakalaka kuyambira pachiyambi mpaka kukwaniritsa zofuna, ndi chifukwa cha kusowa tsankho, kuweruza, kapena kusalabadira zotsatira. Izi zonse ndi chifukwa cha umbuli wa wofuna. Kotero kuti kupanda ungwiro kumakhalapo nthawi zonse mukukhumba zonse ndi chifukwa cha umbuli. Izi zikuwonetsedwa ndi zotsatira za kufuna.

Chinthu kapena chikhalidwe chimene munthu amachifuna sichichitika kawirikawiri ngati momwe amayembekezera chikanakhala, kapena ngati apeza zomwe ankafuna zidzabweretsa zovuta kapena chisoni chosayembekezereka, kapena kukwaniritsa zofunazo kungasinthe zinthu zomwe wofunayo sakuzifuna. kusinthidwa, kapena kudzatsogolera kapena kumufuna kuti achite zomwe sakufuna kuchita. Muzochita zonse kupeza chikhumbo kumabweretsa kapena kukhumudwitsa kapena chinthu chosayenera kapena chikhalidwe, chomwe sichinapangidwe panthawi yomwe ankafuna.

Munthu wofunitsitsa amakana kudzidziwitsa yekha za izi asanayambe kufuna, ndipo nthawi zambiri amakana kudziwa zenizeni pambuyo poti wakumana ndi zokhumudwitsa pakukwaniritsa zomwe akufuna.

M'malo mophunzira kukonza zolakwikazo pomvetsetsa chikhalidwe ndi zoyambitsa ndi njira zokhumbira pambuyo pokumana ndi zokhumudwitsa polakalaka, nthawi zambiri, akakhala wosakhutira pakupeza chimodzi mwazofuna zake, amayamba kulakalaka chinthu china, ndipo amathamangira mwakhungu. kuchokera ku chikhumbo china kupita ku china.

Kodi timapeza chilichonse chifukwa chosowa zimene tikufuna, monga ndalama, nyumba, malo, zovala, zokometsera, zosangalatsa za thupi? Ndipo kodi timapeza chilichonse chifukwa chosakhala ndi kutchuka, ulemu, nsanje, chikondi, kukhala wapamwamba kuposa ena, kapena kukhala ndi udindo, chilichonse kapena zonse zimene timafuna? Kusakhala ndi zinthu izi kudzatipatsa mwayi wongodutsamo ndi chidziwitso chomwe chiyenera kukhala chokolola chochokera ku chokumana nacho chilichonse. Pakusoŵa ndalama tingaphunzire kusamalidwa bwino ndi kufunika kwa ndalama, kotero kuti tisawononge izo koma kuzigwiritsira ntchito bwino tikazipeza. Izi zikugwiranso ntchito ku nyumba, minda, zovala, zosangalatsa. Choncho, ngati sitiphunzira zomwe tingathe posakhala nazo, tikakhala nazo, tidzazitaya ndi kuzigwiritsa ntchito molakwika. Popanda kutchuka, ulemu, chikondi, udindo wapamwamba, zomwe ena amawoneka kuti akusangalala nazo, timapatsidwa mwayi wophunzira zofuna zosakhutitsidwa, zosowa, zikhumbo, zikhumbo, za anthu, kuphunzira momwe angapezere mphamvu ndikukhala odzidalira. , ndipo, pamene tiri nazo izi, kudziwa ntchito zathu ndi mmene tiyenera kuchitira kwa ena osauka ndi onyalanyazidwa, amene ali osowa, amene alibe mabwenzi kapena katundu, koma amene amalakalaka zonsezi.

Pamene chinthu chomwe chinkafunidwa chapezedwa, ngakhale chitakhala chonyozeka chotani, pali mipata yomwe imabwera ndi icho yomwe imatayika, kutayidwa, kutayidwa. Izi zikuwonetsedwa ndi nkhani yaing'ono yosavuta ya zokhumba zitatu ndi pudding wakuda. Zothekera za zokhumba zitatuzi zidatayika kapena kubisika ndi chikhumbo cha mphindi, chilakolako. Chotero chikhumbo choyamba kapena mwayi unagwiritsidwa ntchito mopanda nzeru. Kugwiritsa ntchito mwanzeru mopanda nzeru kumeneku kunachititsa kuti mwayi wachiwiri uwonongedwe, umene unagwiritsidwa ntchito pofuna kuthetsa mkwiyo kapena kuipidwa ndi kulakwa kogwiritsa ntchito mwaŵi wabwino. Kulakwitsa kumodzi kutsatira mosamalitsa kwina, kunabweretsa chisokonezo ndi mantha. Choopsa chokhacho kapena chikhalidwe chinawoneka ndipo, chizoloŵezi chochithetsera kukhala chapamwamba kwambiri, mwayi wotsiriza wolakalaka mwanzeru unatayika m'njira yopereka ku chikhumbo cha nthawiyo. Ambiri anganene kuti nkhani yaing’onoyo ndi nthano chabe. Komabe, mofanana ndi nthano zambiri, ili ndi chithunzithunzi cha chibadwa cha munthu ndipo cholinga chake n’kupangitsa anthu kuona kupusa kumene iwo akufuna.

Kulakalaka kwasanduka chizolowezi ndi munthu. M’mbali zonse za moyo, anthu kaŵirikaŵiri amalankhulana popanda kufotokoza zofuna zambiri. Mchitidwe wolakalaka chinthu chimene sanachipeze, kapena kukhumbira chimene chadutsa. Ponena za nthaŵi zimene zadutsa, nthaŵi zambiri munthu angamve kuti: “O, amenewo anali masiku osangalatsa! Ndikulakalaka tikanakhala ndi moyo m’nthaŵi zimenezo!” kutanthauza zaka zina zapita. Kodi akanangoona zokhumba zawo, monga anachitira loya yemwe anadzifunira yekha m’nthaŵi ya Mfumu Hans, akadamva chisoni kwambiri kupeza mkhalidwe wawo wamaganizo wamakono wosagwirizana ndi nthaŵizo, ndi nthaŵi zosayenererana ndi nthaŵi yawoyo. moyo, kuti kubwerera ku nthawi ino kudzakhala kwa iwo ngati kuthawa masautso.

Chikhumbo china chofala n’chakuti, “Ndi munthu wachimwemwe chotani nanga, ndikanakonda ndikanakhala m’malo mwake!” Koma ngati zimenezo zinali zotheka tikanakhala ndi kupanda chimwemwe kowonjezereka kumene tinali kudziŵa, ndipo chikhumbo chachikulu chikadakhala kukhalanso waumwini, monga momwe kwasonyezedwera ndi zokhumba za mlonda ndi mkulu wa asilikali. Mofanana ndi munthu amene ankafuna kuti mutu wake ukhale mwachipongwe, munthu sangakwanitse kuchita zonse zimene akufuna. Chinachake chimaiwalika nthawi zonse kuti chikhumbocho chikwaniritsidwe ndipo zokhumba zake nthawi zambiri zimamubweretsa m'mikhalidwe yatsoka.

Kaŵirikaŵiri alingalirapo chimene angakonde kukhala. Ngati anauzidwa kuti tsopano atha kukhala chimene iwo m’njira yoyenera ayembekezera kudzakhala, mwa kufuna kuti tsopano, malinga ngati akhutitsidwa ndi kukhalabe m’maere osankhidwawo, alipo oŵerengeka amene sangavomereze. chikhalidwe ndi kupanga zofuna. Mwa kuvomereza mikhalidwe yoteroyo iwo akanatsimikizira kusayenerera kwawo kuchita nawo chikhumbo, chifukwa chakuti ngati cholingacho chinali chachikulu ndi choyenera ndi kutali ndi mkhalidwe wawo wamakono, kukanati, mwa kubwera modzidzimutsa m’kukwaniritsidwa kwake, kukanabweretsa kwa iwo lingaliro la kusayenerera ndi kusayenera. zomwe zingayambitse kusasangalala, ndipo sakanatha kukwaniritsa ntchito za chikhalidwe choyenera. Kumbali ina, ndi chimene chingakhale chothekera kwa munthu amene angavomereze mikhalidwe yoteroyo, chinthucho kapena malowo, ngakhale kuti amawonekera kukhala okopa, angatsimikizire kutsutsa pamene apezedwa.

Kulakalaka zinthu zoipa zoterozo kunachitiridwa fanizo nthaŵi ina m’mbuyomo ndi kamnyamata kakang’ono kamene kanaleredwa mosamala kwambiri. Tsiku lina atapita kukacheza ndi amayi ake, azakhali akewo anakambitsirana za tsogolo la mnyamatayo ndi kuwafunsa ntchito imene anagamulidwa kuti alowe. Robert wamng’ono anamvetsera nkhani yawo, koma anakankhira mphuno yake pawindo la zenera ndi kuyang’ana mumsewu mwachidwi. “Chabwino, Robby,” anatero azakhali ake aang’ono, “kodi waganiza zomwe ungakonde kukhala uli mwamuna?” "Inde," anatero mwana wamng'onoyo akugwedeza mutu pa chinthu chomwe ankafuna kuti, "Inde, aunty, ndikufuna kukhala munthu wa phulusa ndikuyendetsa ngolo ya phulusa ndikuponya zitini zazikulu za phulusa m'bwalo. ngolo, monga amachitira munthu ameneyo.”

Awo a ife amene angavomereze kudzimanga tokha ku mikhalidwe imene zofuna zake zingabweretse, ndife osayenerera kusankha pakali pano boma kapena malo omwe ali abwino kwa tsogolo lathu monga momwe Robert wamng'ono analili.

Kupeza mwadzidzidzi chimene takhala tikuchilakalaka kuli ngati kukhala ndi chipatso chosapsa chimene chazulidwa. Zimawoneka zokongola m'maso, koma zimakhala zowawa ku kukoma ndipo zingayambitse ululu ndi kupsinjika maganizo. Kukhumba ndi kupeza chikhumbo cha munthu ndiko kubweretsa mokakamiza ndi motsutsana ndi lamulo lachirengedwe zomwe ziri kunja kwa nyengo ndi malo, zomwe sizingakhale zokonzeka kugwiritsidwa ntchito ndi zomwe wofunayo sanakonzekere kapena zomwe sangakwanitse kuzigwiritsira ntchito.

Kodi tingakhale osakhumbira? N’zotheka. Amene amayesa kukhala ndi moyo osafuna ali amitundu iwiri. Anthu odzipsya mtima amene amapita kumapiri, m’nkhalango, m’zipululu, ndi amene amakhala paokha kumene amachotsedwa padziko lapansi n’kuthawa mayesero ake. Gulu lina limakonda kukhala m’dziko ndi kuchita ntchito zokangalika zimene malo awo m’moyo amaika, koma yesetsani kukhala osagwirizana ndi zinthu zimene azunguliridwa nazo ndi osakhudzidwa ndi ziyeso za dziko. Koma amuna otere ndi ochepa.

Chifukwa cha umbuli wathu ndi zilakolako zathu ndi zokhumba zathu, timatengeka kapena kuthamangira ku chinthu china kapena chikhalidwe kupita ku china, osakhutitsidwa ndi zomwe tili nazo ndipo timalakalaka china chake ndipo sitingamvetsetse zomwe tili nazo komanso zomwe tili. Zokhumba zathu zamakono ndi gawo la karma ya m'mbuyomu ndipo zimalowa mu kupanga karma yathu yamtsogolo. Timapita kuzungulira kufuna ndi kukumana mobwerezabwereza, popanda kudziwa. Iwo si zofunika kulakalaka mopusa ndi kukhala kosatha wozunzidwa ndi zofuna zathu zopusa. Koma tidzapitirizabe kukhala ozunzidwa ndi zikhumbo zopusa mpaka titaphunzira kudziwa chifukwa chake komanso ndondomeko yake ndi zotsatira zake.

Njira yokhumbira, ndi zotsatira zake, zafotokozedwa. Choyambitsa chake nthawi yomweyo ndi chifukwa cha umbuli, ndi zilakolako zomwe zimakhala zosakhutitsidwa. Koma chifukwa chachikulu komanso chakutali chokhumba chathu ndi chidziwitso chachibadwa kapena chobisika cha ungwiro wabwino, womwe malingaliro amalimbikira. Chifukwa cha kukhudzika kobadwa nako kwa mkhalidwe wabwino wa ungwiro, mfundo yoganiza imanyengedwa ndi kunyengedwa ndi zilakolako ndi kukopeka kuyang'ana kuyenera kwake kwa ungwiro kupyolera mu mphamvu. Malingana ngati zilakolako zimatha kunyengerera malingaliro mpaka kuwapangitsa kuti afunefune kwinakwake, kwinakwake kapena nthawi yoyenera, ndiye kuti zokhumba zake zidzapitilirabe. Pamene mphamvu ya malingaliro kapena mfundo yoganiza itembenuzidwira pa iyo yokha ndipo ikufuna kuzindikira chikhalidwe chake ndi mphamvu zake, sizimatsogoleredwa ndi kunyengedwa ndi chikhumbo mu kamvuluvulu wa mphamvu. Munthu amene amalimbikira kutembenuza mphamvu ya mfundo yoganiza adzaphunzira kudziwa ungwiro umene ayenera kuupeza. Adzadziwa kuti angapeze chilichonse mwachikhumbo, koma sangafune. Amadziwa kuti akhoza kukhala ndi moyo popanda kukhumba. Ndipo amatero, chifukwa akudziwa kuti nthawi zonse amakhala pamalo abwino komanso malo abwino kwambiri ndipo ali ndi mwayi womwe ungamupatse njira zopitira patsogolo ku ungwiro. Akudziwa kuti malingaliro ndi zochita zonse zam'mbuyomu zapereka mikhalidwe yomwe ilipo ndikumubweretsa m'menemo, kuti izi nzofunika kuti akule kuchokera m'menemo pophunzira zomwe ali nazo kwa iye, ndipo akudziwa kuti kufuna kukhala china kusiyapo. iye ali, kapena m’malo ena alionse kapena mikhalidwe yosiyana ndi imene iye ali, ingachotse mwaŵi wamakono wa kupita patsogolo, ndi kuchedwetsa nthaŵi ya kukula kwake.

Ndi bwino kuti aliyense alimbikire kutsata zomwe wasankha, ndipo ndibwino kuti ayesetse kuyambira pano kuti akwaniritse zomwe akufuna popanda kufuna. Aliyense wa ife pa nthawi ino ali mumkhalidwe wabwino koposa umene iye angakhalemo. lake ntchito.