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MUNTHU NDI MWANA NDI MWANA

Harold W. Percival

GAWO I

MUNTHU NDI MWANA NDI MWANA

Zaka zana ziyenera kukhala moyo wabwinobwino wa mwamuna ndi mkazi, pafupifupi wogawika m'migawo inayi kapena magawo anayi aulendo wamoyo. Choyamba, unyamata, umene uli siteji ya maphunziro ndi kuphunzira kudziletsa; chachiŵiri, kukhwima, monga siteji yophunzirira maunansi a anthu; chachitatu, kukwaniritsidwa, monga siteji ya utumiki ku zofuna zazikulu; ndipo, potsiriza, kulinganiza, monga siteji kapena nthawi yomwe munthu angathe kumvetsetsa ndi kuchita miyambo yoyeretsa yomwe munthu amadutsamo pambuyo pa imfa, kapena ngakhale kuyamba kusinthika kwa thupi.

Magawo anayiwo sanagawidwe mofanana ponena za nthawi; amakulitsidwa ndi mkhalidwe wamaganizo wa munthu, ndi kuganiza. Masewera, zosangalatsa, kapena zofuna za anthu ndi zosangalatsa zidzagwirizana ndi msinkhu wa munthu, mayanjano ndi zosankha zaumwini. Magawo anayiwo sayenera kuonedwa ngati kufunikira kokhwima koma monga ntchito zosankhidwa, momwe munthu amachitira zomwe wasankha ndi zomwe akufuna.

Gawo loyamba limayamba pamene thupi la khanda likubwera m'dziko lino; ndi thupi lanyama; koma ndi wosiyana ndi matupi ena anyama; ndi chosowa chochita kuposa nyama zonse; sungathe kuyenda kapena kudzipangira kanthu. Kuti apitirize kukhala ndi moyo, ayenera kuyamwidwa ndi kukokedwa ndi kuphunzitsidwa kudya ndi kuyenda ndi kulankhula ndi kubwereza zomwe akuuzidwa; sichifunsa mafunso. Kenako, kuchokera mumdima waukhanda, kumabwera mbandakucha wa ubwana. Mwanayo akayamba kufunsa mafunso, ndi umboni kuti chinthu chozindikira, mwiniwake, walowa m'thupi, ndiyeno ndiye munthu.

Kudzifunsa kudzifunsa kumapanga kusiyana ndikusiyanitsa ndi nyama. Iyi ndi nthawi ya ubwana. Ndiye maphunziro ake enieni ayenera kuyamba. Makolo nthawi zambiri samadziwa kuti iwo si makolo a chinthu chozindikira, kudzikonda, komwe kumakhala mwa mwana wawo; ndiponso sadziwa kuti lili ndi makolo ake. Munthu wozindikira yekha mwa mwanayo ndi wosafa; thupi lomwe lirimo, liyenera kufa. Ndi kukula kwa thupi padzakhala, payenera kukhala, mpikisano pakati pa munthu wozindikira ndi thupi la nyama, kusankha chomwe chidzalamulire.

Chifukwa chake, ngati munthu wozindikira saphunzira za kusafa kwake paubwana sikutheka kuti adzaphunzira paunyamata kapena pambuyo pake; ndiye kuti malingaliro athupi amapangitsa munthu wozindikira kukhulupirira kuti ndi thupi, ndikuletsa kudzizindikiritsa yokha mkati mwa thupi komanso kukhala wosafa mwachidziwitso. Izi ndi zomwe zachitika, ndipo zimachitika, pafupifupi munthu aliyense wobadwa padziko lapansi. Koma siziyenera kukhala tero, chifukwa pamene chinthu chozindikira cha mwana wamng’onoyo—monga chimachitika pafupifupi nthaŵi zonse—chiyamba kufunsa amayi ake, chimene chiri ndi kumene chinachokera, chiyenera kuuzidwa kuti thupi lanyama linali lofunikira kuti uzimutheketse. kuti abwere mu dziko lathupi ili, ndipo kotero abambo ndi amayi anapereka thupi lanyama momwe ilo liri. Pofunsa mafunso odziwa za iyeyo, malingaliro ake amakhazikika payekha m'malo mwa thupi lake, motero amasinthidwa kukhala njira zoyenera. Koma ngati imaganizira kwambiri za thupi lake kuposa momwe imadzikondera yokha, ndiye kuti imadzizindikiritsa yokha komanso ngati thupi lanyama. Makolo ayenera kusamala kwambiri maganizo, zokopa ndi zonyansa za mwanayo; kuwolowa manja kwake kapena kudzikonda; mafunso ake ndi mayankho ake a mafunso. Motero khalidwe limene liri lobisika mwa mwanayo likhoza kuwonedwa. Ndiyeno likhoza kuphunzitsidwa kulamulira choipa ndi kuphunzitsa, kukoka ndi kukulitsa zabwino mwa izo zokha. Mwa unyinji wa ana omwe amabwera kudziko lapansi pali ochepa omwe izi zingatheke, ndipo mwa ochepa payenera kukhala m'modzi yemwe angapangire kulumikizana kozindikira ndi Kudzikonda kwake. Mwana akaphunzira kwambiri, amakhala wokonzeka kuchita maphunziro ake m’masukulu amene angamuyenerere ntchito yosankhidwa padziko lonse.

Gawo lachiwiri, kukhwima, liyenera kudziwika ndi mikhalidwe yoyenerera ya ufulu ndi udindo. Ntchito ya munthu padziko lapansi idzakwaniritsa cholinga ichi. Panthawi yachitukuko achinyamata ayenera kusiya kufunika kwa unamwino ndi kudalira makolo ake poyitanira ntchito ndikugwiritsa ntchito zomwe angathe kuti adzipezere yekha malo mdera lawo. Kuchita zimenezi kumakulitsa udindo. Kukhala ndi udindo kumatanthauza kuti munthu ndi wodalirika; kuti adzakwaniritsa malonjezo ake ndi kukwaniritsa udindo wa ntchito zake zonse.

Gawo lachitatu liyenera kukhala nthawi yokwaniritsa ntchito zamtundu uliwonse. Maphunziro a achinyamata ndi luso komanso kuphunzira kwa ubale wa anthu ziyenera kukhala kukhwima kumene kungathe kutumikira bwino anthu ammudzi kapena boma pa udindo kapena udindo umene munthu ali woyenerera bwino.

Gawo lachinayi komanso lomaliza la munthu liyenera kukhala nthawi yokwanira yopuma pantchito yokhazikika, yodziganizira nokha. Ziyenera kukhala kupenda maganizo a munthu akale ndi zochita zake zokhudzana ndi mtsogolo. Malingaliro ndi zochita za munthu zitha kuyesedwa ndikuweruzidwa mopanda tsankho ali m'moyo, poganiza, m'malo modikirira mpaka ndi liti, m'maboma atamwalira, munthu ayenera kuwaweruza mu Nyumba yake ya Chiweruzo ndi Conscious Light. Kumeneko, popanda thupi lanyama, munthu sangachite kuganiza kwatsopano; akhoza kungoganizira zimene waganiza ndi kuchita ali ndi moyo m’thupi lanyama. Pamene ali ndi moyo, aliyense angaganizire mwanzeru ndi kukonzekera moyo wotsatira wa padziko lapansi. Munthu amatha kudzizindikira yekha m'thupi, ndikuwongolera malingaliro ake kuti ayese kukonzanso thupi lake kuti akhale ndi moyo wosatha.

Ndemanga yapitayi ya masiteji anayi abwinobwino ndi momwe iwo angakhale kapena angakhale ngati munthu amvetsetsa kuti iye si chidole wamba amene mwa zochitika kapena udindo amapangidwa kuchita zimene mphamvu zokhudzira zingamusonkhezere kuchita. Ngati munthu akufuna kudziwa zomwe angachite kapena sangachite, sangadzilole kuchita ngati kuti, ndi mphamvu zake, amakokedwa kapena kukakamizidwa kuchitapo kanthu. Akapeza kapena kutsimikizira cholinga chake padziko lapansi, pambuyo pake adzagwira ntchitoyo, ndipo zochita kapena zosangalatsa zina zonse zidzakhala zogwirizana ndi cholinga chimenecho.

 

M’maŵa wa moyo munthu wozindikira amabwera m’thupi ndi kudzuka m’bandakucha wa ubwana wake. Pang'onopang'ono chidziwitso chaumwini mwa mwanayo chimazindikira zowona ndi zomveka ndi zokonda ndi fungo m'dziko lachirendo limene limadzipeza lokha. Pang'onopang'ono limamvetsetsa tanthauzo la mawu omveka. Ndipo wozindikira amaphunzira kulankhula.

Ndi kukula kwa ana pali chinsinsi, kukopa kwachilendo, pakati pa mnyamata ndi mtsikana. Kwa zaka zambiri, chinsinsi sichimathetsedwa; ikupitiriza. Mdzakazi aona kufooka ndi mphamvu zake; Mnyamata amaona kunyansidwa ndi kukongola kwake. Monga mwamuna ndi mkazi, ayenera kuphunzira kuti njira yodutsa m’moyo imapangidwa ndi kuwala ndi mthunzi, zotsutsana zonga zowawa ndi zosangalatsa, zowawa ndi zokoma, chirichonse chikuloŵa m’malo mwa chinzake, pamene usana ukupambana usiku kapena pamene mtendere umatsatira nkhondo. Ndipo, monga kutsegulira kwa dziko kwa achichepere, mwa zokumana nazo ndi zoganiza mwamuna ndi mkazi ayenera kuphunzira kuti zoyambitsa kuvumbulutsidwa kwa zochitika zapadziko lapansi sizidzapezeka kapena kuthetsedwa m’dziko lakunja kwa iwo eni, koma m’dziko lamkati; kuti mkati mwa chifuwa chilichonse muli zotsutsana, zowawa ndi zosangalatsa, chisoni ndi chisangalalo, nkhondo ndi mtendere, zomwe, ngakhale zosaoneka, zimakhazikika mu mtima wa munthu; ndi kuti, ndi nthambi zakunja ndi maganizo ndi zochita, amabala zipatso zawo monga makhalidwe oipa kapena ukoma kapena matemberero kapena madalitso mu dziko lakunja lonse. Pamene munthu afunadi za iye mwini mkati, adzakhala ndi kutha kwa nkhondo ndi mabvuto, ndi kupeza mtendere—ngakhale m’dziko lino—mtendere umene sungathe kufikira imfa.

Chinsinsi ndi vuto la amuna ndi akazi ndizochitika zaumwini za mwamuna aliyense komanso za mkazi aliyense. Koma palibe amene angaganizire mozama za nkhaniyi mpaka atadzidzimuka ndi kuyang'anizana ndi mfundo ya moyo kapena imfa. Ndiye ameneyo amazindikira chinsinsi, vuto la kubadwa kapena thanzi kapena chuma kapena ulemu kapena imfa kapena moyo.

Thupi la munthu ndilo malo oyesera, njira ndi chida chomwe mayesero onse ndi mayesero angapangidwe; ndipo zomwe zikuganiziridwa ndi kuchitidwa zidzakhala umboni ndi umboni ndi kuwonetsera kwa zomwe zachitika kapena zomwe sizinakwaniritsidwe.

 

Tsopano zikhala bwino kulengeza za obwera kumene, kuyang'ana zomwe adakumana nazo komanso zomwe adakumana nazo m'miyoyo yawo, ndikuganiziranso ochepa omwe nditero kuti agonjetse imfa mwa kukonzanso matupi awo anyama—momwe angakhalire “otsogolera” amene adzasonyeze Njira ya Ufumu wa Kumwamba kapena Ufumu wa Mulungu—Remmu of Permanence—umene wafalikira m’dziko lino la kusintha, koma limene silingaonekere mwa munthu. maso.

 

Apa akubwera: ana aamuna ndi aakazi! mazana a iwo, ola lililonse la usana ndi usiku; kuchokera kosaoneka kupita m'zowoneka, kuchokera mumdima kulowa mu kuwala, ndi mpweya ndi mfuu - iwo akubwera; ndipo osati kwa zikwi zokha koma kwa zaka mamiliyoni ambiri iwo akhala akubwera. Kumpoto kozizira komanso kozizira komanso kumadera otentha amabwera. Pachipululu chophulika ndi m'nkhalango zopanda dzuwa, pamapiri ndi m'zigwa, panyanja ndi m'phanga, m'malo otsetsereka a anthu ambiri ndi m'mphepete mwa nyanja, m'nyumba zachifumu ndi m'nyumba. Zimabwera zoyera kapena zachikasu kapena zofiira kapena zakuda, komanso zosakanikirana za izi. Iwo amabwera mu mafuko ndi mafuko ndi mabanja ndi mafuko, ndipo angapangidwe kukhala m’mbali iriyonse ya dziko lapansi.

Kubwera kwawo kumabweretsa chisangalalo ndi zowawa ndi chisangalalo ndi nkhawa, ndipo amalandiridwa ndi nkhawa ndi kutamandidwa kwakukulu. Amaleredwa ndi chikondi ndi chisamaliro chachikondi, ndipo amachitidwa mphwayi ndi kunyalanyazidwa koipitsitsa. Amaleredwa m’mikhalidwe ya thanzi ndi matenda, yoyengedwa ndi yachisembwere, yachuma ndi yaumphaŵi, ndipo amaleredwa muukoma ndi m’zoipa.

Amachokera kwa mwamuna ndi mkazi ndipo amakula kukhala amuna ndi akazi. Aliyense akudziwa zimenezo. Zowona, koma ichi ndi chimodzi chokha cha mfundo zokhudzana ndi kubwera kwa anyamata ndi atsikana. Ndipo apaulendo akatsika m’chombo chomwe changobwera kumene padoko ndikufunsidwa kuti: “Kodi iwowo ndi ndani ndipo achokera kuti?, n’zomvekanso kuyankha kuti: Ndi amuna ndi akazi ndipo adachokera m’chombocho. Koma zimenezo sizimayankha funsoli. Anyamata ndi atsikana sadziwa chifukwa chimene anadzera kapena mmene anadzera kapena mmene anabwerera m’dzikoli, ndiponso amuna ndi akazi sadziwa chifukwa chake, mmene analowera kapena kuti adzachoka m’dzikoli. Chifukwa palibe amene amakumbukira, ndipo chifukwa cha kubwera kosalekeza kwa ana aamuna ndi asungwana aakazi, kubwera kwawo sikuyambitsa zodabwitsa, ndi mfundo yodziwika. Koma tiyerekeze kuti palibe amene amafuna kukwatira kapena kukwatiwa ndiponso kuti anthu onse amakhala ndi moyo kosalekeza ndipo sanafe; kuti, nawonso, chikanakhala chowonadi chodziwika, ndipo sipakanakhala zodabwitsa za izo. Ndiye, ngati m'dziko lopanda ana, lopanda imfa payenera kubwera mwana wamwamuna ndi mwana wamkazi: kukanakhala zodabwitsa bwanji! Ndithudi, zimenezo zingakhale zodabwitsa. Sizinayambe zachitikapo ngati zimenezi. Ndiye aliyense amadabwa, ndipo kudabwa kumatsogolera kuganiza. Ndipo kuganiza kungapereke chiyambi chatsopano chakumverera-ndi-chikhumbo. Kenako panadzabweranso mtsinje wokhazikika wa ana aamuna ndi aakazi. Chotero zipata za kubadwa ndi imfa zikanatseguka ndipo zikanakhala zotsegula m’dziko. Ndiye chodabwitsa chingakhale chakuti munthu ayenera kudabwa, chifukwa chimenecho chikanakhala njira yachibadwa ya zochitika, monga momwe zilili lero.

Aliyense amaganiza monga momwe aliyense amaganizira. Kuganiza kapena kuchita mosiyana ndi lamulo ndi kayendetsedwe ka zinthu. Anthu amangoona ndi kumva ndipo mwina amakhulupirira, koma samvetsetsa. Sadziwa chinsinsi cha kubadwa.

Chifukwa chiyani makanda amabwera momwe amachitira? Kodi timadontho ting'onoting'ono tating'ono tating'ono tating'onoting'ono timalumikizana bwanji n'kusintha kuchoka pa mluza n'kukhala khanda, nanga n'chiyani chimachititsa kuti kanyamaka kameneka kanakula n'kukhala mwamuna kapena mkazi? Nchiyani chimachititsa kuti wina akhale mwamuna ndipo winayo akhale mkazi? Munthu sakudziwa.

Matupi a mwana ndi mwamuna ndi mkazi ndi makina, machitidwe odabwitsa. Ndiwopangidwa modabwitsa kwambiri, osinthidwa mosamala kwambiri, komanso ndi makina ovuta kwambiri padziko lapansi. Makina amunthu amapanga makina ena onse omwe amapangidwa, ndipo ndi makina omwe popanda makina ena omwe angapangidwe kapena kugwiritsidwa ntchito. Koma ndani akudziwa amene ndi or chani ndizomwe zimapanga ndikuyendetsa makina amunthu?

Makina amunthu ndi makina amoyo ndipo amafunikira chakudya kuti akule komanso kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi kuti apange organic. Mosiyana ndi makina opanda moyo, makina aumunthu ndiwo amalima ndi kukolola chakudya chake, chomwe chimachokera ku mchere ndi masamba ndi zinyama, komanso madzi, mpweya ndi kuwala kwa dzuwa. Inde, aliyense amadziwa zimenezo, nayenso. Chabwino, koma ndani amadziwa chinsinsi chake, chomwe chiri chofanana ndi chinsinsi cha mwanayo? Kodi nchiyani chomwe chili mumbewu kapena m’nthaka chimene chimapangitsa shuga-beet ndi tsabola woyaka, mbatata kapena kabichi wosakoma, adyo wamphamvu, ndi chiyani chimapangitsa zipatso zotsekemera ndi zowawasa—zonse zimamera kudothi lofanana? Ndi chiyani chomwe chili mumbewu chomwe chimaphatikiza zinthu za nthaka, madzi, mpweya ndi kuwala kukhala masamba ndi zipatso? Zomwe zimapangitsa kuti ziwalo za m'thupi zituluke monga momwe zimachitira, komanso ndi zotupa zake kuti azilekanitsa zakudya m'magulu awo, ndikuphatikizana ndikuzisintha kukhala magazi ndi mnofu ndi ubongo ndi fupa ndi mtsempha ndi khungu ndi tsitsi ndi dzino ndi msomali ndi nyongolosi. selo? Zomwe zimapanga zipangizozi ndikuzisunga nthawi zonse mu dongosolo ndi mawonekedwe; zomwe zimapanga mawonekedwewo ndikuwapatsa mtundu ndi mthunzi; ndi chiyani chimapereka chisomo kapena zovuta kumayendedwe a makina amunthu, ndi kusiyanitsa kwake ndi makina ena aliwonse? Matani masauzande osawerengeka a zakudya amadyedwa tsiku lililonse ndi makina aamuna ndi aakazi, ndipo tsiku lililonse matani ochuluka amabwezedwa padziko lapansi, m'madzi ndi mumlengalenga. Mwanjira imeneyi, kumayenda bwino kwa zinthu kumayendera limodzi ndi makina a amuna ndi akazi. Izi zimagwira ntchito ngati nyumba zambiri zochotsera zosinthana zomwe zimachitika pakati pa chilengedwe ndi makina amunthu. Yankho la mafunso otere ndikuti pamapeto pake zonsezi ndi chifukwa cha Conscious Light m'chilengedwe.

 

Tsopano mwana wamwamuna kapena wamkazi atafika, sankatha kuona, kumva, kulawa, kununkhiza. Mphamvu zapaderazi zinali mwa khandalo, koma ziwalozo zinali zisanakulidwe mokwanira kotero kuti mphamvuzo zikatha kusinthidwa ku ziwalozo ndi kuphunzitsidwa kuzigwiritsira ntchito. Poyamba mwanayo sankatha ngakhale kukwawa. Chinali chosowa chochita kwambiri mwa tinyama tating'ono tomwe timabwera padziko lapansi. Izo zimangolira ndi kulira ndi kuyamwitsa ndi kugwedeza. Pambuyo pake, itaphunzitsidwa kuwona ndi kumva ndi kukhala tsonga ndi kuyimirira, inaphunzitsidwa kuchita zinthu mwanzeru kuyenda. Pamene khanda limatha kuyenda mozungulira popanda kumchirikiza ankanenedwa kukhala wokhoza kuyenda, ndipo kuyenda kunalidi chipambano chodabwitsa kwa khanda. Panthaŵiyi linaphunzira kutchula ndi kubwereza mawu ochepa, ndipo linayenera kuti lizitha kulankhula. Pamene anakwanitsa kukwanitsa zimenezi, mphamvu za kuona, kumva, kulawa ndi kununkhiza zinali kusinthidwa ku minyewa yake, ndipo minyewa imeneyi inali kuikidwa ndi kugwilizana ndi ziwalo zake monga diso, khutu, lilime, ndi mphuno. Ndiyeno zokhudzira ndi minyewa ndi ziwalo zinali zogwirizana kwambiri ndi kugwirizana kwa wina ndi mzake kotero kuti zinagwira ntchito limodzi ngati njira imodzi yokonzekera. Njira zonsezi m'moyo wa khanda zinali kupanga kukhala makina amoyo komanso ogwirira ntchito okha. Kalekale izi zisanachitike, makina amoyo anali atapatsidwa dzina, ndipo anaphunzira kuyankha ku dzina lina monga John kapena Mary.

Simukukumbukira chilichonse mwazochita ndi zochitika m'moyo wanu, muli khanda. Chifukwa chiyani? Chifukwa inu sanali khanda; inu analibe mwa khanda, kapena osachepera, osakwanira inu anali m'thupi la khanda kapena kukhudzana ndi mphamvu kuti akumbukire kakulidwe ndi ntchito za khanda. Kungakhaledi kukusowetsani mtendere kukumbukira zinthu zonse zimene khandalo linakonzedwera kwa inu, kaya linachita kapena linam’chitira kuti likonzekeretse inu kulowamo ndi kukhalamo.

Kenako, tsiku lina panachitika chinthu chodabwitsa komanso chofunika kwambiri. Kuzungulira ndi mkati mwa khanda lamoyo lotchedwa John kapena Mary, kunabwera china chake chozindikira chomwe chimadziwa nokha, amadziwa as pokhala osati John kapena Mary. Koma pamene china chake chozindikiracho chinali mwa Yohane kapena Mary sichinathe kudzizindikiritsa kuti chinali chosiyana, komanso ngati osati John kapena osati Mary. Sinkadziwa komwe idachokera, kapena komwe idachokera, kapena momwe idafikira kulikonse komwe idapezeka. Umu ndi mmene zinalili pamene inu, monga munthu wozindikira, munalowa m’thupi limene mukukhalamo.

Monga John kapena Mary thupi laling'ono khandalo lidalabadira zomwe adalandira ngati makina odzichitira okha amatha kuyankha, osazindikira zomwe zikuchitika. Mwanayo anali akadali makina, koma makina kuphatikizapo "chinachake" chomwe chinalowamo. Basi chomwe chinali chinachake, ndithudi chinachake sichimadziwa. Chinali kudzizindikira chokha, koma sichimakhoza kumvetsetsa chomwe chinali; silinathe kudzifotokozera lokha. Zinali zododometsedwa. Zinkadziwanso za thupi lomwe limakhalamo ndikuyenda komanso kumva, koma silikanatha kudzizindikiritsa, kuti: Ndine ichi, ndekha, ndi thupi lomwe ndimamva kuti ndi chinachake. in amene I am. Kudziwa chinachake ndiye amadzimva yekha kukhala ozindikira "Ine" mu Yohane kapena mu thupi la Maria, monga momwe inu tsopano mumaganizira ndi kumva zovala zomwe mumavala kuti zikhale zosiyana ndi thupi, osati thupi lomwe limavala zovala. Munali otsimikiza kuti muli osati thupi.

Munali m’mavuto aakulu zedi! Chifukwa chake, atadzifunsa kwa nthawi yayitali, wozindikirayo adafunsa mayiyo mafunso monga awa: Ndine ndani? Ndine chiyani? Kodi ndili kuti? Ndinachokera kuti? Ndinafika bwanji kuno? Kodi mafunso amenewa amatanthauza chiyani? Amatanthawuza kuti chinthu chozindikira chili ndi zakale! Pafupifupi chilichonse chomwe chimadziwa chomwe chimalowa mwa khanda chimatsimikizira kufunsa mafunso ngati awa kwa amayi akangomaliza kulira kwake koyamba, ndipo amatha kufunsa mafunso. Zoonadi awa anali mafunso ozunguza mutu, ndi osowetsa mtendere kwa amayi, chifukwa sakanatha kuwayankha. Adayankha zomwe sizinamukhutiritse. Mafunso omwewo kapena ofananira nawo adafunsidwa ndi chinthu chozindikira pafupifupi mnyamata ndi mtsikana aliyense yemwe wabwera padziko lapansi. Mayiyo panthawi ina anali m'vuto lomwelo pamene "Ine," the inu zinali pamenepo. Koma anaiwala kuti zimene zinkachitika kwa inu, mwa Yohane kapena mwa Mariya, zinali zofanana ndi zimene zinamuchitikira yekha pamene analowa m’thupi lake. Ndipo kotero adakupatsani mayankho omwewo kapena ofanana ndi mafunso anu monga omwe adalandira kuchokera kwa makolo a thupi lake. Anakuuzani kuti thupi laling'ono lomwe munalimo linali inu; kuti dzina lako linali Yohane kapena kuti Mariya; kuti inu munali mnyamata wake wamng'ono, kapena msungwana wake wamng'ono; kuti mudachokera Kumwamba, kapena kwina komwe sadadziwa koma kumene adauzidwa; ndi kuti, dokowe, kapena dokotala anakutengerani inu. Cholinga chake ndi mayankho ake adaperekedwa kuti akwaniritse inu, mwa Yohane kapena Maria, ndi chiyembekezo chakuti adzasiya kufunsa kwanu. Koma za chinsinsi cha kutenga pakati, kutenga pakati ndi kubadwa, iye ankadziwa zambiri kuposa inu. Ndipo adadziwabe zochepa kuposa momwe mudadziwira panthawiyo zachinsinsi chachikulu cha chidziwitso chomwe sichinali mwana wake koma chomwe chimafunsa, kudzera mu thupi la mwana, mafunso omwe iye adafunsa ndipo adayiwala kale.

Mwanayo anali ndi moyo mosaganizira zam'mbuyo kapena zam'tsogolo. Yohane kapena Mariya sankasiyanitsa usana ndi usiku. Koma tsopano kuti "Ine," inu, anali atalowa mmenemo, sanalinso khanda, anali mwana, ndipo inu munayamba kukhala mu dziko la nthawi, kuzindikira usana ndi usiku, ndi kuyembekezera mawa. Zinakhala ngati tsiku lalitali bwanji! Ndipo ndi zochitika zodabwitsa zingati zomwe zingakhalepo patsiku! Nthawi zina mudakhala pakati pa anthu ambiri ndipo amakutamandani kapena kukusekani, kapena kukusekani, kapena kukudzudzulani. Iwo ankakuonani ngati chinachake chosiyana. Munali mlendo m’dziko lachilendo. Ndipo inu—nthawi zina—mumadzimva kukhala osungulumwa komanso nokha. Pambuyo pake, munapeza kuti kunalibe ntchito kufunsa mafunso okhudza inuyo; koma inu munafuna kuphunzira za dziko lachilendo limene munalowamo, ndipo munafunsa za zinthu zimene munaziwona. Munazolowera kuyankha dzina la John kapena Mary. Ndipo ngakhale mudadziwa kuti simuli, komabe, mudayankha ku dzina limenelo. Pambuyo pake, munakhala wosakhazikika, ndipo mumafuna ntchito; kuchita, kuchita, kumangopitiriza kuchita chinachake, chirichonse nkomwe.

Kwa mnyamata ndi mtsikana, kusewera n’kofunika; ndi nkhani yaikulu. Koma kwa mwamuna ndi mkazi kuli chabe kupusa kwa “masewera a mwana”. Mwamuna ndi mkaziyo sakumvetsetsa kuti kamwanako, kamene kakunena kuti ndi wogonjetsa, angathe mwa kungogwedeza lupanga lake lathabwa ndi kunena kuti “kufa!” kupha magulu ankhondo a malata; kuti msilikali wopanda mantha akukwera kavalo wake wonyada wa ndodo yatsache akupondereza chitoliro choopsa cha chinjoka cha munda wa chinjokacho ndikuchisiya icho kulira ndi moto ndi nthunzi pamene chimafa ndi kuponyedwa mopanda mantha kwa mkondo wake; kuti tizidutswa ta zingwe ndi timitengo tingapo timakwanira kuimika ndi kuima pa thabwa laling'ono kuchokera kugombe kupita kumtunda kwa mlatho; kuti ndi makhadi owerengeka kapena midadada amamanga mtambo woboola m’mwamba-mwamba; kuti m'mphepete mwa nyanja mtetezi wolimba mtima wa dziko lake amakweza nsanja zazikulu zamchenga ndi mizinda, yotetezedwa ndi gulu lankhondo lankhondo ndi magulu amiyala amiyala ndi zomwe mphepo ndi mafunde sizingayese kugonjetsa; kuti ndi mabatani andalama ndi thonje kapena chimanga wochuluka wa thonje kapena chimanga kalonga wamalonda wamng’onoyo amagula kapena kugulitsa zotuta zazikulu, ndi kutumiza katundu wochuluka wa nsalu ndi zakudya ku magombe akunja m’gulu lake lalikulu la mabwato a mapepala oyenda panyanja zazikulu—pamadzi pang’ono; m'mbale ya amayi ake.

Zochita za mtsikanayo sizodabwitsa kwambiri poyerekeza ndi zazikulu za mnyamatayo. M’mphindi zoŵerengeka amalera banja lalikulu mosavuta, amaphunzitsa anyamata ndi atsikana ntchito zawo zosiyanasiyana, kuwakwatitsa, ndi kuleranso gawo lina. Mphindi yotsatira amapeza njira ina yopezera mphamvu zake poyitanitsa kumanga nyumba yachifumu nthawi yomweyo, kusamalira zida zake zodabwitsa komanso kusangalatsa abwenzi kapena kumidzi yonse. Zinthu zachilendo zomwe amapanga ndi chilichonse chomwe chilipo ndikuchitcha kuti makanda ndi ana, zimakhala ndi zinthu zofanana kapena zazikulu kuposa zidole zodula. Ndi maliboni kapena nsanza amapanga kapena kukongoletsa amuna ndi akazi kapena zinthu zina zomwe zingagwirizane ndi zomwe amakonda. Chipinda chapamwamba chokhala ndi zinyalala amachisintha kukhala nyumba yachifumu ndi kulandira mafumu; kapena amapereka feteleza wamkulu, mu ngodya iliyonse ya chipinda chake. Kenako angachoke mwadzidzidzi kukakumana m’munda popanda munthu wina aliyense. Kumeneko, alendo amantha angamutengere ku nyumba zachifumu za nthano kapena kumuwonetsa zodabwitsa za m'nthano. Umodzi mwa mwayi wake ndi, akasankha, kupanga chilichonse chomwe angafune popanda kanthu.

Zisudzo zimenezi sizingakhale zongopindulitsa munthu amene ali yekhayekha. Atsikana ndi anyamata ena atha kupatsidwa mbali zina ndikuthandizira kuchita chilichonse chomwe chingachitike. Zowonadi, zodabwitsa za m'modzi zitha kusinthidwa kukhala chilichonse chomwe wina akuwonetsa, ndipo aliyense wa gulu amawona ndikumvetsetsa zomwe ena akuchita. Onse amakhala mozindikira m'dziko la anyamata ndi atsikana. Zonse ndi zachilendo kapena palibe chachilendo. Chilichonse chikhoza kuchitika. Dziko lawo ndi dziko lodzipangitsa kukhulupirira.

Dziko lodzipangitsa kukhulupirira! Kodi mnyamata ndi mtsikana analowamo bwanji? Analilowetsamo n’kuthandiza kulisunga mwa kukhudza mphamvu za kuona ndi mawu ndi kulawa ndi kununkhiza, kenako n’kuona ndi kumva ndi kulawa ndi kununkhiza. Pafupifupi nthaŵi ya chikumbukiro choyamba cha dziko, “chinthu chozindikira” chinabwera mwa mnyamatayo kapena mwa mtsikanayo. Sinkatha kuona kapena kumva kapena kulawa kapena kununkhiza, koma pang'onopang'ono inalowa mu gear ndi mphamvu za thupi ndipo inaphunzira kuzigwiritsa ntchito. Kenako idayamba kulota, ndipo idapeza kuti ili m'dziko lachilendo, ndipo idasowa chochita. Kanyama kakang'ono kamene kanali kamene kanali kamene kanaphunzitsidwa kufotokoza kupuma kwake m'mawu. Mawu amenewa anasanjidwa m’zigawo za kalankhulidwe ka anthu kuimira zinthu ndi zochitika za dziko lachilendo mmene linalili, kotero kuti anthu a m’dzikoli azilankhulana wina ndi mnzake za zimene anaona ndi kumva, ndi kuti anthu a m’dzikoli azilankhulana. atha kufotokoza zinthu izi kwa wina ndi mzake ndi kunena zomwe amaganiza pa chilichonse. Mnyamata ndi mtsikanayo anali ataphunzira kutchula mawu amenewa, monga mmene mbalame ya nkhwere imachitira. Koma kuti mwa mnyamata kapena msungwana yemwe anali “chinachake” chodzimvera yekha, anaphunzira tanthauzo la mawuwo ndipo anadziwa chimene iwo anali kunena. Chabwino, nthawi yomwe mnyamata kapena mtsikanayo amatha kuchita izi, china chake chomwe chimazindikira mwa iye chinayamba kuganiza ndikudzifunsa mafunso okhuza thupilo, komanso dziko lomwe zidapezeka. Ndithudi izo sizikanakhoza kupeza chimene icho chinali, chifukwa zokhudzira za thupi zimakhoza kuzidziwa izo za thupi lokha; zinali zozunguzika; anali atasiya kukumbukira kuti anali ndani kapena chiyani, monga amuna kapena akazi amakhala ndi nthawi ya amnesia pamene amataya mphamvu yawo ya kulankhula kapena kuiwala zomwe ali. Ndiye panalibe amene akanatha kunena chilichonse chokhudza iye yekha, chifukwa chinachake "chodzizindikira" mwa mwamuna kapena mkazi aliyense chinali chitayiwalika kalekale. Panalibe mawu omwe chinthu chozindikira chingagwiritse ntchito kudzifotokozera chokha, ngakhale chitakhala chaulere kutero; mawu amatanthauza chinachake chokhudza thupi ndi dziko lozungulira ilo. Ndipo pamene idawona ndi kumva mochulukira idayamba kudziganizira yokha; ndipo, kumbali ina, m'mene idadziganizira yokha ndipamene idadziwiratu za thupi lake ndi dziko lapansi. Ilo linayesa kuchita mitundu iwiri ya kuganiza. Mtundu umodzi unali wodzikhudza wokha, ndipo winawo unali wokhudza thupi mmene unalili komanso za anthu ndi dziko lozungulira. Ilo silikanatha kudzigwirizanitsa lokha ndi thupi lake ndi malo ozungulira, ndipo silinathe kudzisiyanitsa lokha ndi izi. Zinali mumkhalidwe wosasangalala ndi wosokonezeka, monga kuyesa kukhala wokha osati wokha nthawi yomweyo, komanso kusamvetsetsa chilichonse mwazinthu zomwe ukuyesera kukhala. Choncho, sichingakhale chokha kapena thupi lonse. Sizikadakhala zokha chifukwa cha gawo lomwe lidakhazikika m'thupi ndi mphamvu zathupi, ndipo silinathe kuganiza ndikukhala m'dziko la amuna ndi akazi chifukwa ziwalo za thupi momwe zidaliri. sichinakulitsidwe mokwanira kotero kuti icho chikhoza kuganiza ndi kukhala mu machitidwe a dziko la mwamuna ndi mkazi.

Kodi nchifukwa ninji dziko la anyamata ndi atsikana lili dziko lodzipangitsa kukhulupirira? Chifukwa zonse m’menemo ndi zenizeni ndipo palibe chenicheni. Chilichonse chapadziko lapansi chikuwoneka ngati chenicheni ku mphamvu za thupi pamene "chinthu chozindikira" m'thupi chimadzizindikiritsa ndi mphamvu, ndipo palibe chomwe chili chenicheni ku chinthu chozindikiracho chikadzizindikira chokha kuti chilipo. osati wa thupi kapena wa mphamvu za thupi. Thupi silimadzizindikira lokha ngati thupi, zokhudzira sizidzizindikira ngati zomverera, ndipo sizizindikira thupi konse. Zomverera ndi zida, ndipo thupi ndi chida kapena makina, omwe mphamvu zake zimagwiritsidwa ntchito ngati zida. Izi sizidzizindikira mwanjira iliyonse, ndipo chidziwitso chomwe chimawagwiritsa ntchito ngati zida sichimachidziwa kapena zinthu zapadziko lapansi chikakhala m'tulo tofa nato. Mu tulo tofa nato, "chinthu chozindikira" sichimakhudzidwa ndi thupi ndi mphamvu zake, chifukwa chake, sichidziwa za iwo kapena thupi kapena dziko lapansi. Ndiye thupi ndi mphamvu zake sizingathe kuyankhulana ndi chinthu chozindikira. Pamene thupi likugona, chinthu chozindikira chimachoka ku gawo lokha lomwe silinagwirizane ndi thupi. Chidziwitso chikabwereranso, ndikulumikizananso ndi thupi, chimakanthidwa ndi kuyiwala kokha. Imasokonezedwanso ndi mphamvu ndi kuwona ndi kumva kwa zinthu komanso ndi dzina la thupi lomwe liyenera kuganiza. Imadzizindikira yokha ngati yeniyeni ndi zinthu monga zopanda zenizeni pamene imadziganizira yokha; ndipo imazindikira zinthu za dziko monga zenizeni pamene imalingalira kupyolera mu mphamvu.

Pamaso pa chidziwitso china chotsekedwa kwathunthu ndi zomverera za thupi zimakhala mumkhalidwe wodabwitsa. Imadzizindikira yokha ngati chinthu chomwe sichiri thupi, koma sichingathe kusiyanitsa thupi lake ngati siliri lokha. Ndikudziwa kuti zinthu zonse ndi zotheka kwa icho, monga chinthu chozindikira; ndipo imazindikira kuti ili ndi malire muzinthu zonse ndi thupi lake. Pali chidaliro m'chilichonse, ndipo palibe chitsimikizo cha kukhazikika kwa chinthu chilichonse. Chilichonse chikhoza kulengedwa m’kamphindi, ndipo m’kamphindi kakang’ono kangathe kutha kapena kusinthidwa kukhala chinthu china, malinga ndi chikhumbocho. Horse angagwiritsidwe ntchito ngati mahatchi othamanga ndi bokosi la sopo ngati galeta lagolide, ndipo panthawi imodzimodziyo akhoza kukhala macheka ndi bokosi la sopo, kapena akhoza kukhala zinthu zina, kapena palibe, powakakamiza kuti atero. kapena ayi. Ndiye zinthu sizilipo, poganiza kuti sizilipo; ndi zinthu zomwe kulibe, pozikonda kuti zikhale. Tsopano zimenezo nzosavuta—ndi zopusa zedi kukhulupirira! Chabwino, chinthu chozindikira chomwe chili m'thupi chomwe chimadzizindikira chokha komanso thupi, chomwe kuganiza chimazindikira kuti si thupi, komanso kuganiza kumadzipangitsa kukhulupirira kuti ndi thupi, kumaphunzira kutsatira komwe thupi limamva. kutsogola, ndi momwe amakondera. Ichi ndichifukwa chake chidziwitso china mwa mnyamatayo komanso mwa mtsikanayo chimapangitsa dziko lodzipangitsa kukhala lodzikhulupirira ndikukhala momwemo, ndipo amuna ndi akazi amakhala pafupifupi, ngati sakudziwa.

Chidziwitso china chake chimadziwa kuti si thupi lomwe lili ndi dzina chifukwa: likudziwa kuti likudziwa; sikuzindikira kuti thupi lizindikira monga mbali yake; sichidziwa monga chiwalo cha thupi; chifukwa chake, ngati chinthu chozindikira, ndi chosiyana komanso chosiyana ndi thupi lomwe lili, ndipo si dzina lomwe limayankha. Chidziwitso china chake sichimaganiza za izi. Kwa ilo zoona zake n’zodziwikiratu—ndikokwanira.

Koma chinthu chozindikira mwa mnyamata kapena mtsikanayo chimakhala chopenyerera; limafananiza ndipo nthawi zina limalingalira zomwe limawona ndi kumva. Ngati sichikulangizidwa chidzazindikira chokha kuti pali zogwiritsiridwa ntchito m'mawu ndi machitidwe kwa anthu osiyanasiyana mu ubale womwe amakhala nawo kwa wina ndi mzake, pakati pa makolo, ana, apakhomo, alendo, ndi maphwando. Zomwe zimazindikira mwa mwana zimazindikira zambiri kuposa zomwe mwana amapatsidwa ulemu. Chimaona kuti aliyense amanena ndi kuchita zimene wina aliyense amanena ndi kuchita, aliyense m’malo mwake ndiponso mogwirizana ndi anzake. Aliyense amawoneka akutsanzira ena. Choncho, anyamata ndi atsikana akamavala mbali zawo n’kuzisewera, kwa iwo zimenezi zimakhala zofunika kwambiri komanso zenizeni monga mmene zilili mbali zimene amuna ndi akazi amachita. Amawona zigawozo ngati masewera, masewera odzipangitsa kukhulupirira.

Anyamata ndi atsikana azipanga zisudzo zawo kulikonse komwe ali. Iwo sali, mu m’badwo uno wamakono, kusokonezedwa ndi kukhalapo kwa akulu awo. Akafunsidwa za sewero lawo "lopanda pake" kapena "lopanda pake", amalongosola mosavuta. Koma amakhumudwa kapena kuchitiridwa zinthu mopanda chilungamo ngati zimene akunena kapena kuchita zikunyozedwa. Ndipo nthawi zambiri amamvera chisoni amuna ndi akazi amene samvetsa.

Chidziwitso chikaphunzira kusewera mbali ya thupi ndi dzina lomwe watenga, imazindikira kuti imathanso kusankha dzina lina lililonse la thupi la John kapena Mary ndikusewera gawo lomwe latengedwa. Imamva mayina a anthu, a nyama ndi zinthu zotchulidwa ndi amuna ndi akazi, ndipo imatenga ndi kusewera gawo la munthu, nyama kapena chinthu chomwe chimagunda kwambiri komanso chomwe chimasankha kusewera. Chifukwa chake chinthu chozindikira chimaphunzira luso la kutsanzira komanso luso la masquerade. Ndizochibadwa komanso zosavuta kuti atenge dzina ndikuchita gawo la abambo, amayi, msilikali, ntchito, malonda kapena nyama, monga momwe zimakhalira kuyankha ku dzina ndikusewera gawo la John kapena Mary. Imadziwa kuti kwenikweni si thupi lotchedwa John kapena Mary monga momwe lilili thupi lina lililonse lomwe lili ndi dzina. Chifukwa chake likhoza kungotchulanso thupi lomwe lilimo ndi dzina lina lililonse ndikusewera gawolo.

Kodi mnyamata ndi mtsikana amatani pa mafunso amene amawasokoneza maganizo? Palibe. Palibe mayankho omwe amawakhutiritsa. Ndipo palibe chimene chingachitidwe. Choncho amaphunzira kuona zinthu mopepuka monga mmene amaonekera. Chilichonse chatsopano poyamba chimakhala chodabwitsa ndipo pakapita nthawi chimangokhala wamba.

John wamng’ono ndi mfuti yake ya XNUMX tambala angathyole m’banki iriyonse, mumsewu momwemo kapena m’bwalo lake la kuseri, ndi kulamula kuti: “Mandikani, ev'ry bod’ee!” Zoonadi, pakumva kulira kwa liwu lowopsya limenelo ndi pamaso pa mfuti yowopsyayo, aliyense akumvera ndi kunjenjemera. Kenako wachifwamba wopanda manthayo akusonkhanitsa ndi kutenga zofunkha.

John anaba Mary ndipo onse awiri anabisala ndipo amasangalala pamene anyamata ndi atsikana ena akuthamanga mosangalala, kufunafuna ndi kupereka mphotho chifukwa chobweranso kwa mwana wokondedwayo. Ndiyeno pamakhala chisangalalo chachikulu pamene wakuba wopanda chifundoyo alandira dipo, kulipiridwa m’malipilo a nyuzipepala, ndipo Mary wamng’ono wamtengo wapataliyo wapezedwa.

Amuna ndi akazi samasangalala ndi “zoseketsa” zimenezi, ndipo sangazimvetse, chifukwa kalekale iwo anasiya dziko la anyamata ndi atsikana ndipo tsopano sakuzindikira, ngakhale kuti akuona mnyamata ndi mtsikanayo akuchita zinthu monyanyira. iwo.

Mabuku a nkhani za mnyamata ndi mtsikana amawafika pamtima kwambiri kuposa mabuku otchuka onena za mwamuna ndi mkazi. Lolani mwamuna kapena mkazi amene wawerengapo “Robinson Crusoe” kapena “The Swiss Family Robinson” awerengenso limodzi mwa mabuku amenewo. Sangabwerere m’mbuyo ku nthawiyo n’kukumbukira mmene zinthuzo zinachitikira, n’kumamvanso mmene anamvera. Kuwerenga kwapano kudzakhala kovutirapo komanso kwakanthawi poyerekeza ndi zomwe adakumana nazo ali anyamata ndi atsikana. Iwo angadabwe kuti zinatheka bwanji kuti azisangalala ndi mabuku ngati amenewa. Kusweka kwa ngalawa!, kwawo kwa chisumbu!, zodabwitsa za pachisumbucho!—zochitika zimenezo zinali zenizeni; koma tsopano—zithunzi zokongola zazimiririka, kukongola kwatha. Ndipo nthano zongopeka - ndi zokopa. Panali maola ambiri pamene mnyamata ndi mtsikanayo anaŵerenga kapena kumva akuŵerenga nkhani yochititsa chidwi ya zimene zinachitika. Ulendo wa Jack ndi Beanstalk, kupambana kwa Jack, Giant Killer, kuli kwamoyo kwa John, yemwe amadzikonda ngati Jack, ndikuchitanso zodabwitsa zomwe Jack adachita. Mary amasangalala ndi Kukongola Kogona m'nyumba yachifumu, kapena ndi Cinderella. Iye mwini akhoza kukhala Wokongola, akuyembekezera kubwera kwa Kalonga; kapena, monga Cinderella, penyani kusintha kwa mbewa kukhala akavalo ndi dzungu kukhala kochi ndi kunyamulidwa ku nyumba yachifumu - kumeneko kukakumana ndi Kalonga - ngati mulungu wamatsenga angawonekere ndikumuchitira zinthu izi.

Mwamuna ndi mkazi aiwala, ndipo sangakumbukire chidwi cha nkhanizi, chidwi chomwe anali nacho kwa iwo, ali mnyamata ndi mtsikana.

Mnyamata ndi mtsikanayo adakumananso ndi zokumana nazo zomvetsa chisoni—ndipo pali mwamuna kapena mkazi amene angamvetse kapena kugawana nawo chisoni cha mwana! John anali asanabwere kuchokera kumasewera. Atafufuza anapeza atakhala pamwala, mutu uli m’manja, thupi lake likunjenjemera. Ndipo pamenepo pamapazi ake panali zotsalira za galu wake, Scraggy. Nthawi ina Scraggy anagundidwa ndi galimoto ndipo anatsala pang'ono kuphedwa. John adapulumutsa galuyo ndikumuyamwitsa kuti akhalenso ndi moyo, ndipo adamutcha dzina lake Scraggy. Tsopano, Scraggy anali atagundidwanso ndi galimoto yodutsa—kwanthaŵi yotsiriza! Scraggy anali atafa, ndipo John anali atakhumudwa. Scraggy ndipo anali atamvetsetsana, izi zinali zokwanira kwa John. Palibe galu wina amene akanatenga malo ake ndi Yohane. Koma patapita zaka, pamene Yohane anali atakula mu dziko la mwamuna ndi mkazi, tsokalo linayiwalika, njira zapita; Scraggy ndi chikumbukiro chochepa chabe.

Mariya akuthamangira kwa amayi ake, akulira ngati kuti mtima wake ukusweka. Ndipo pakati pa kulira kwake amalira: “Amayi! Amayi! Carlo wazula mwendo wa Peggy. Nditani? Nditani?” Anagwedeza chidole chake pa galuyo akusewera, ndipo mwendo unatuluka pamene Carlo anaugwira. Mary akuyamba kulira ndipo misozi inangotuluka. Dziko lamdima! Kuwala kwapita—ndi kutayika kwa mwendo wa Peggy. Amayi amauza Mary kuti adzakhala ndi chidole chabwino komanso chokongola kuti alowe m'malo mwa Peggy. Koma lonjezo limeneli linangowonjezera chisoni cha Mariya. "Wabwino komanso wokongola kuposa Peggy? Poyeneradi! Peggy si wonyansa. Palibe chidole chabwino kwambiri, kapena chokongola ngati Peggy. ” Ndipo Mary akukumbatira pafupi ndi chidole chotsalacho. "Peggy, wokondedwa!" Mary sangasiyane ndi Peggy, popeza wathyoka mwendo. Mayi wothedwa nzeruyi wayiwala chidole chake chomwe amachikonda kalekale.

 

Mwamuna ndi mkazi nthawi zambiri sawona mwa mwanayo mwamuna kapena mkazi wam'tsogolo, pamene akuyang'ana mwanayo ali ndi maganizo osasamala, panthawi yopuma kapena pophunzira. Sangathe kapena sayesa kulowa m’dziko limene mwanayo amakhala, mmene ankakhalamo nthawi ina, ndi limene anakulirakulira n’kuliiwala kotheratu. Dziko la mwamuna ndi mkazi ndi dziko losiyana. Mizimu iwiriyi imadutsana, kotero kuti anthu okhala m'mayiko awiriwa azitha kulankhulana. Ngakhale zili choncho, anthu okhala m’mayikowa amangoonana wina ndi mnzake, koma sakumvetsa. Chifukwa chiyani? Chifukwa kugawanika kwa kuiwala kumalekanitsa dziko la mnyamata ndi mtsikana ku dziko la mwamuna ndi mkazi.

Mwanayo amachoka paubwana akamadutsa m’gawo limenelo ndiyeno n’kukhala mwamuna kapena mkazi, koma zaka zake sizomwe zimatsimikizira. Kugawa kutha kuperekedwa panthawi yaunyamata, kapena mwina kusanachitike kapena pambuyo pake; sizingachitike kufikira pamene masiku asukulu atha, kapena ngakhale pambuyo pa ukwati—zimene zimadalira kukula kwa munthu, makhalidwe ake, ndi mphamvu zake zamaganizo. Koma ubwana umasiyidwa m'mbuyo mwa kudutsa opanda kanthu, kugawa kumeneko. Ndipo anthu ochepa amakhalabe m'dziko la anyamata ndi atsikana masiku onse a moyo wawo. Ndi ena sizitenga nthawi yayitali kuposa tsiku kapena mwezi. Koma pamene siteji ya mnyamata ndi mtsikana yasiyidwa ndipo siteji ya mwamuna ndi mkazi yayamba, kugawanika kwa kuiwala kumatseka kumbuyo kwawo ndi kuwatsekereza kwamuyaya kudziko la anyamata ndi atsikana. Ngati mwamuna kapena mkazi aliyense akumbutsidwa za chochitika chowoneka bwino m’dziko limenelo, kapena za chochitika chimene iye anali nacho nkhaŵa kwambiri, icho chiri chabe chikumbukiro chofanana ndi choŵaŵitsa—chimene m’kamphindi chimazimiririka m’maloto akale.

Posakhalitsa, muzochitika zilizonse zachilendo, kusintha kwakukulu kumachitika. Malingana ngati chinthu chodziwa chimakhalabe chodziwa kuti si thupi lomwe limagwira gawolo, limadzisiyanitsa ndi thupi ndi gawolo. Koma pamene ikupitiriza kusewera pang'onopang'ono amaiwala kusiyana ndi kusiyana pakati pa iyo yokha ndi gawo lomwe limasewera. Sichisankhanso kusewera magawo. Imadziyesa yokha kukhala thupi, imadzizindikiritsa yokha monga dzina la thupi ndi gawo lomwe limagwira. Ndiye amasiya kukhala wosewera, ndipo amadziwa za thupi ndi dzina ndi gawo. Pa nthawi imeneyo ikhoza kudziganiza yokha kuchoka ku dziko la anyamata ndi atsikana ndi kulowa m'dziko la mwamuna-ndi-mkazi.

Nthawi zina chinthu chozindikira chimazindikira kuti palinso china chake chozindikira mwa aliyense wa anyamata ndi atsikana omwe amawadziwa bwino, ndipo amatha kudziwa izi mwa mwamuna kapena mkazi. Ndiye chinthu chozindikira chimenecho chikudziwa kuti palibe chimodzi mwazinthu izi mwa mnyamata ndi mtsikana kapena mwamuna ndi mkazi chomwe chimadzizindikira chokha. as ndani ndi chomwe icho chiri, kapena kuti chinachokera kuti. Imaphunzira kuti chinthu chozindikira mwa mnyamata kapena mtsikana aliyense chili m'mavuto omwewo; ndiko kunena kuti, ali ozindikira, koma sangathe kudzifotokozera okha kuti ndi ndani kapena chomwe chiri chidziwitso, kapena momwe amazindikira; kuti pali nthawi zomwe aliyense ayenera kukhulupirira kuti ndi zomwe sizili, ndipo pali nthawi zina zomwe kufunikira sikukakamiza; ndipo, kuti pa nthawi izi amaloledwa kudzipangitsa kukhulupirira zomwe zimakonda-ndiye amasangalala mu dziko la zodzipangitsa kukhulupirira, monga kutsogolera zapamwamba.

Ndiyeno, ndi zochepa, pamakhala mphindi—ndipo ndi zambiri zimenezi zimacheperachepera kapena zimalekeratu m’kupita kwa zaka—pamene zonse zikadali, pamene nthaŵi ikuima, sizimazindikiridwa; pamene palibe chomwe chikuwoneka; kukumbukira-kukumbukira ndi momwe zinthu zimazimiririka; dziko kulibe. Ndiye chidwi cha ozindikira chinachake chimakhazikika mwa icho chokha; ali yekha, ndipo amadziwa. Pali chozizwitsa: O! izo IS yokha, yosatha, yowona, yamuyaya! Mkati mwa mphindi imeneyo—zinapita. Kupumira kumapitilira, mtima ukugunda, nthawi imapita, mitambo imatsekeka, zinthu zimawonekera, kumveka kumamveka, ndipo chinthu chozindikira chimazindikiranso thupi ndi dzina ndi ubale wake ndi zinthu zina, ndipo chimatayikanso padziko lapansi. za kudzipangitsa kukhulupirira. Nthawi yosowa komanso yapakati, monga kukumbukira kosagwirizana, imabwera mosayembekezereka. Zitha kuchitika kamodzi kapena kambirimbiri m'moyo. Zitha kuchitika usiku usanagone, kapena pamene ukuyamba kuzindikira kudzuka m'mawa, kapena zikhoza kuchitika nthawi iliyonse ya tsiku ndipo mosasamala kanthu za ntchito zomwe zingakhalepo.

Chinachake chozindikira ichi chitha kupitilirabe kudzizindikira panthawi yonse ya anyamata ndi atsikana, ndipo chitha kupitilira mpaka chitavomereza zosamalira kapena zosangalatsa za moyo ngati "zenizeni" zake. Zowonadi, mwa anthu ena ochepa ndi osagonjetseka ndipo sangagonjetse malingaliro ake odziwikiratu kumalingaliro ozama athupi. Ndi chinthu chodziwika bwino komanso chodziwika bwino m'moyo wonse wathupi. Sichidziwa mokwanira kuti chidziwike kuti ndi ndani kuti chizisiyanitsa ndi thupi ndi dzina. Ikhoza kuganiza kuti izi zingatheke, koma sichiphunzira momwe ingachitire. Komabe mwa anthu ochepa awa sangasiye kapena sangasiye kuzindikira kuti si thupi. Chinachake chozindikira sichifuna kutsutsana kapena ulamuliro kuti utsimikizire kapena kutsimikizira izi. Zimenezo n’zoonekeratu kuti sitingatsutsane nazo. Sichipondereza kapena kudzikuza, koma chokhudza choonadi ichi ndi ulamuliro wake wokha. Thupi lomwe limakhalamo limasintha, zinthu zimasintha, malingaliro ake ndi zilakolako zake zimasintha; koma, mosiyana ndi izi ndi zina zonse, ndikuzindikira kuti chiri ndipo nthawi zonse chakhala chofanana chozindikira chinthu chomwe sichinasinthe ndipo sichisintha, komanso kuti sichikhudzidwa ndi nthawi.

Pali Chidziwitso chodzidziwa chomwe chili chogwirizana ndi chosasiyanitsidwa ndi chinthu chozindikira; koma Chidziwitso chimenecho sichinthu chozindikira, ndipo sichili m'thupi, ngakhale chimalumikizana ndi chidziwitso china m'thupi chomwe chidalowa m'thupi ndi dzina, ndipo chidazindikira thupi lomwe adalowa, ndikuzindikira. za dziko. Chinachake chozindikira chimabwera m'thupi patatha zaka zingapo thupi litabadwa ndikulisiya pakufa kwa thupilo. Ndi chomwe chimachita zinthu mdziko lapansi, Wochita m'thupi. Ndipo pakapita nthawi idzalowa m’thupi lina lokhala ndi dzina, ndipo matupi enanso okhala ndi mayina ena, m’kupita kwa nthawi. Koma chizindikiritso chodzidzimutsa chokhudzana ndi chinthu chozindikira mu chilichonse chomwe chilipo, mwa mwana aliyense ndi chizindikiritso chodzidziwitsa chomwe chinthu chozindikira sichingathandizire kuzindikira. of lokha, ndipo, pozindikira pazaka zoyambirira za thupilo kuti liri osati thupi lomwe lili ndi dzina. Chidziwitso china chake m'thupi sichimadziwa amene ndi or chani ndi; sichidziwa Identity kapena ubale wake ndi Identity yodzidziwa. Ndi chidziwitso as chinthu chozindikira chifukwa cha ubale wake ndi Thinker-Knower of its Triune Self, Utatu wake payekha.

Chidziwitso chodzidziwa sichimabadwa komanso sichifa pamene chidziwitso chake chimalowa m'thupi kapena kutuluka m'thupi; sichisintha pa kukhalapo kwake kulikonse kwa “chidziwitso” chake, ndipo sichisokonezedwa ndi imfa. Payokha ndiye bata, bata, Chidziwitso chamuyaya - pomwe pali china chake chomwe chimazindikira m'thupi chimadziwa. Chidziwitso china chake ndiye chowonadi chokhacho kapena chowonadi chomwe munthu amadziwa. Koma ndi anthu ambiri, chinthu china chomwe chimazindikira chimabisika ndikuzunguliridwa ndi mphamvu, ndipo chimadziwika ndi thupi komanso thupi.

Kuti mwamuna kapena mkazi akhalenso ozindikira as zomwe ankadziwa ali mnyamata kapena mtsikana wamng'ono, kukumbukira maganizo sikokwanira. Kungonena kuti amakumbukira sikungachite. Memory, monga loto losaoneka bwino, ndi lakale. Chidziwitso china chake ndi chapano, chanthawi zonse Tsopano. Zilakolako ndi malingaliro a mwamuna ndi mkazi sazindikira monga momwe analiri mwa mnyamata ndi mtsikana, ndipo kuganiza kumakhala kosiyana. Chifukwa chake, kuti mwamuna ndi mkazi amvetsetse chifukwa chomwe mnyamatayo ndi mtsikana amachitira momwe amachitira, mwamunayo amayenera kuyambiranso ndikuzindikira ngati mnyamatayo, ndipo mkaziyo amayenera kuyambiranso ndi kuzindikira monga momwe amachitira. mtsikana. Izi sangachite. Sangathe, chifukwa chidziwitso chomwe chimadziwika kuti silinali thupi kapena gawo lomwe limasewera, sichikusiyanitsa tsopano. Kusasiyanitsa uku kumachitika makamaka chifukwa ziwalo zogonana zomwe sizinapangidwe za mnyamatayo zitha kukhudza, koma sizinakakamize, kuganiza kwa china chake chozindikira mwa mnyamatayo. Tsopano chidziwitso chofananira china mwa munthu chimakakamizika kuganiza molingana ndi zilakolako za munthu, chifukwa kuganiza kwake ndi zochita zake zimaperekedwa ndi kupangidwa ndi mitundu ndi kukakamizidwa ndi ziwalo ndi ntchito za mwamuna. N’chimodzimodzinso ndi mkazi. Ziwalo zosakula za mtsikanayo zidakhudza, koma sizinakakamize, kuganiza kwa chinthu chozindikira. Tsopano, chinthu chomwecho chozindikira mwa mkazi chimakakamizika kuganiza molingana ndi momwe mkazi amamvera chifukwa kuganiza kwake ndi kachitidwe kake kumakhala kopangidwa ndi ziwalo ndi ntchito za mkazi. Izi ngati chifukwa, zimapangitsa kuti zikhale zosatheka kuti mwamuna kapena mkazi azilakalaka ndikumverera komanso kumvetsetsa momwe mnyamata ndi mtsikana amaganizira, komanso chifukwa chake amachitira zinthu m'dziko lawo.

Anyamata ndi atsikana amakhala ndi tsankho locheperapo poyerekeza ndi amuna ndi akazi. Inu, monga mnyamata kapena mtsikana, munali ndi tsankho lochepa kapena mulibe konse. Chifukwa chake n’chakuti panthaŵiyo simunapange zikhulupiriro zotsimikizirika zanuzanu, ndipo munalibe nthaŵi yovomereza zikhulupiriro za makolo anu kapena za anthu amene munakumana nawo monga zikhulupiriro zanu. Mwachibadwa, munali ndi zokonda ndi zosakonda ndipo izi munazisintha nthaŵi ndi nthaŵi pamene mumamvetsera zokonda ndi zosakonda zosonyezedwa ndi mabwenzi anu ndi anthu achikulire, koma makamaka atate ndi amayi anu. Munalakalaka kwambiri kuti zinthu zifotokozedwe, chifukwa mumafuna kumvetsetsa. Munali okonzeka kusintha chikhulupiriro chilichonse ngati mutapeza wina aliyense kuti akupatseni chifukwa kapena kuti akutsimikizireni kuti zimene ananenazo n’zoona. Koma mwina munaphunzira, monga mmene ana amaphunzirira kaŵirikaŵiri, kuti amene munawafunsa kuti muwafotokozere sanafune kukuvutitsani kufotokoza, kapena kuti anaganiza kuti simungamvetse, kapena kuti sanathe kukuuzani zimene mukufuna kudziwa. Munali opanda tsankho panthawiyo. Masiku ano muli ndi tsankho lalikulu, ngakhale mutha kuchita mantha kuvomereza mpaka mutayamba kuganiza za izi. Ngati mulingalirapo mudzapeza kuti muli ndi tsankho la m’banja, laufuko, lautundu, la ndale, lachikhalidwe ndi lina lililonse lokhudza chilichonse chokhudza zochita za anthu. Izi mwazipeza kuyambira muli mnyamata kapena mtsikana. Tsankho lili m'gulu la makhalidwe omwe anthu amawakonda kwambiri.

Pali kusakanikirana kosalekeza kwa anyamata ndi atsikana ndi amuna ndi akazi. Komabe, onse amamva kusiyana, chotchinga chosawoneka cha dziko-la-amuna-ndi-akazi kuchokera kudziko la anyamata ndi atsikana. Ndipo chotchinga chimenecho chimakhalabe mpaka patakhala kusintha kwa mnyamata ndi mtsikanayo. Kusintha kuchoka kwa mnyamata ndi mtsikana kukhala mwamuna ndi mkazi nthawi zina kumakhala kwapang'onopang'ono, pang'onopang'ono. Ndipo nthawi zina kusinthako kumachitika mwadzidzidzi. Koma kusinthako n’kotsimikizirika kubwera mwa munthu aliyense amene sakhalabe mwana m’moyo wonse. Mnyamata ndi mtsikanayo amazindikira kusinthako kukafika, ngakhale kuti ena amaiwala pambuyo pake. Asanasinthe, mnyamatayo angakhale adanena kuti: Ndikufuna kukhala mwamuna, ndi mtsikana: Ndikanakonda ndikanakhala mkazi. Pambuyo pa kusintha, mnyamatayo akunena kuti: Ndine mwamuna, ndi mtsikana: Ndine mkazi tsopano. Ndipo makolowo ndi ena adzaona ndipo mwina afotokozepo za kusinthaku. Nchiyani chapangitsa kapena chabweretsa kusinthaku, mkhalidwe wovutawu, kuwoloka chotchinga ichi, chomwe ndi kugawa-kuiwala, kulekanitsa dziko la mnyamata ndi mtsikana kuchokera kudziko la mwamuna ndi mkazi? Kodi magawowa amapangidwa kapena kukonzedwa bwanji, ndipo amakonzedwa bwanji?

Kuganiza kumapanga kugawa, kulingalira kumakonzekeretsa, ndipo kuganiza kumakhazikitsa malo ake. Kusintha kuchokera kwa mnyamata ndi mtsikana kukhala mwamuna ndi mkazi kuyenera kukhala pawiri: kusintha kwa kukula kwa thupi la amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, ndi kusintha komwe kumayenderana ndi kakulidwe kawo ka maganizo, mwa kuganiza. Kukula kwakuthupi ndi kukula kwa kugonana kudzatengera mnyamata ndi mtsikana kudziko la mwamuna ndi mkazi, ndipo kumeneko adzakhala mwamuna ndi mkazi malinga ndi kugonana kwawo. Koma pokhapo ngati apanga patsogolo molingana ndi kakulidwe ka maganizo kawo, iwo sangadutse malire. Iwo adzakhalabe mu dziko la anyamata ndi atsikana. Kukula m'thupi popanda kukula kwamalingaliro kumawalepheretsa kukhala mwamuna ndi mkazi. Kotero iwo amakhalabe: mwamuna ndi mkazi pogonana, koma mnyamata ndi mtsikana m'maganizo, m'dziko la mnyamata ndi mtsikana. Amawoneka ngati mwamuna ndi mkazi. Koma iwo alibe udindo. Ndi zowona zatsoka kwa maiko onse awiri. Iwo akulirakulira ndikukula kupitirira dziko la ana ndipo salinso ana. Koma alibe thayo lamalingaliro, alibe nzeru kapena kumvetsetsa za kulondola ndi kukwanira, ndipo motero sangadaliridwe monga mwamuna ndi mkazi.

Kuwoloka kugawa-kuyiwalitsa kuchokera kwa mnyamata ndi mtsikana, ndi kulowa mu dziko la mwamuna-ndi-mkazi, kuganiza kuyenera kutsagana ndi kugwirizana ndi kukula kwa kugonana. Kugawa kumapangidwa ndikusinthidwa ndi njira ziwiri zoganizira. Chinachake chozindikira m'thupi chimachita kuganiza. Chimodzi mwazinthu ziwirizi chimayendetsedwa ndi chinthu chozindikira podzizindikiritsa pang'onopang'ono kapena kudzigwirizanitsa ndi kukula kwa kugonana kapena kugonana kwa thupi la mwamuna kapena thupi la mkazi momwe liri. Kuzindikiritsa uku kumatsimikiziridwa ndi chinthu chozindikira pamene chikupitiriza kudziganizira ngati thupi ndi ntchitoyo. Njira ina yoganizira ndikuvomerezedwa ndi chinthu chozindikira chomwe nthawi zina chimatchedwa zozizira komanso zovuta za moyo, komanso kudzizindikiritsa ngati umunthu wathupi womwe umadalira chakudya ndi katundu ndi dzina ndi malo dziko, ndi mphamvu kukhala, kufuna, kuchita, ndi kukhala nazo zonse izi; kapena, kukhala ndi kukhala nazo zotere monga zifuna.

Pamene, poganiza, chinthu chozindikira mwa mnyamatayo kapena mwa mtsikanayo chadzizindikiritsa chokha ndi thupi lachiwerewere momwe liri, ndipo limadzipangitsa kukhala lodalira dzina ndi malo ndi mphamvu padziko lapansi, ndiye kubwera dziko lovuta, mphindi ndi mphamvu. chochitika. Ili ndi lingaliro lachitatu, ndipo limabwera monyozeka komanso mwapamwamba. Ndi pamene chinthu chodziwa chimasankha udindo wake padziko lapansi, komanso momwe malowa alili pokhudzana ndi amuna ndi akazi ena. Lingaliro lachitatu komanso lodziwikiratu ndiye chinthu kapena kudzipangira nokha chinthu chomwe chili ndi thupi lomwe lilimo, komanso ubale wa thupilo ndi matupi ena aumunthu komanso dziko lapansi. Kuganiza uku kumayambitsa ndi kumapanga malingaliro ena amalingaliro a udindo wamakhalidwe. Lingaliro lachitatu ili limagwirizanitsa umunthu wa kugonana ndi thupi ndi mikhalidwe ya moyo. Lingaliro kapena malingaliro awa amatsogolera, kuyika ndikukonza. Ndiye mnyamata kapena msungwana yemwe anali, ali kunja kwa dziko la mnyamata ndi mtsikana, ndipo tsopano ali mwamuna kapena mkazi mu dziko la mwamuna-ndi-mkazi.

Dziko la anyamata ndi atsikana limasowa pamene amadzizindikira kwambiri ndi zochita zawo monga mwamuna ndi mkazi. Dziko lapansi ndi dziko lakale lomwelo; sichinasinthe; koma chifukwa chakuti asintha kuchoka pa mnyamata ndi mtsikana kukhala mwamuna ndi mkazi ndipo chifukwa chakuti amawona dziko ndi maso awo monga mwamuna ndi mkazi, dziko likuoneka kukhala losiyana. Iwo tsopano akuona zinthu zimene sanali kuziona pamene anali mnyamata ndi mtsikana. Ndipo zinthu zonse zomwe anali kuzidziwa panthawiyo, tsopano akuzidziwa mwanjira ina. Mnyamata ndi mtsikanayo samayerekezera kapena kudzifunsa okha za kusiyanako. Amazindikira zinthu monga momwe zimawonekera kwa iwo, ndi zomwe amazivomereza ngati zenizeni, ndipo aliyense amachita ndi zenizeni malinga ndi mapangidwe ake. Moyo ukuwoneka kuti ukutseguka kwa iwo, malinga ndi chikhalidwe chawo komanso chikhalidwe cha anthu omwe ali, ndipo zikuwoneka kuti zikupitiriza kutseguka pamene akupita.

Ino ncinzi cakacitika kuli mwaalumi amukaintu ooyu kutegwa babone cisi eeci ncobakacita? Chabwino, podutsa mu kugawa-kuyiwalitsa iwo nthawi yomweyo anazindikira za mzere wa malire, womwe umagawanitsa mbali ya mwamuna ndi mkazi wa dziko la mwamuna ndi mkazi. Mnyamatayo ndi namwaliyo sananene kuti: Ndidzatenga mbali iyi, kapena, nditenga mbali iyi ya mzere; Iwo sananene kanthu za nkhaniyi. Mnyamatayo adadziwona kuti ali ndipo adadzizindikira kuti ndi mwamuna kumbali ya mwamuna, ndipo mtsikanayo adadziwona yekha ndipo adadzizindikira kuti ndi mkazi kumbali ya mzere wolekanitsa mwamuna ndi mkazi. Iyi ndi njira ya moyo ndi kukula. Zili ngati kuti moyo unali gawo la msewu wozungulira wozungulira umene ana aamuna ndi aakazi amalowetsedwamo. Amaseka ndi kulira ndikukula ndi kusewera, pamene msewu umawapititsa patsogolo kupyola nthawi ya anyamata-ndi-asungwana-padziko lapansi mpaka pamzere wa malire omwe amadutsa pakati pa anyamata ndi atsikana- ndi mwamuna-ndi- akazi-dziko. Koma mnyamata ndi mtsikanayo sakuwona mzerewo mpaka atadutsa gawo la kuyiwala. Mnyamatayo akupitirizabe kuyenda, koma kumbali ya mwamuna. Mtsikanayo amasunganso msewu, ndi kumbali ya mkazi wa mzere wogawanika. Chotero kumbali iriyonse ya mzerewo amapita monga mwamuna ndi mkazi ku dziko la mwamuna-ndi-mkazi. Amuna ndi akazi amayang'ana wina ndi mzake ndipo amasakanikirana pa gawo lowoneka la njira yozungulira-nthawi yoyendayenda yotchedwa moyo mpaka kumapeto, mwamuna nthawi zonse amazindikira mbali yake ndi mkazi wa mbali yake. Ndiye imfa ndiyo mathero a gawo looneka la moyo wa mseu. Thupi lowoneka lowoneka limasiyidwa pagawo lowoneka la msewu. Koma njira yozungulira-nthawi yoyenda-yoyenda imapitilira chinthu chozindikira ndi mawonekedwe ake osawoneka kupyola m'maiko ambiri pambuyo pa imfa ndi nthawi ndikusiya matupi onse osawoneka ndi mawonekedwe pamagawo awo amsewu. Njira yozungulira-nthawi-yoyenda-njira ikupitilira. Kachiŵirinso umadzetsa ku gawo lake lowoneka lotchedwa moyo, mwana wina wamwamuna kapena wamkazi. Ndipo, m'malo mwake, china chake chozindikira chomwechi chikulowanso mnyamata kapena mtsikanayo kuti apitirize ndi cholinga chake kudzera mumsewu wowonekera.

Inde, anyamata ndi atsikana amadziwa, mocheperapo, kuti pali kusiyana pakati pa mnyamata ndi mtsikana; koma samavutitsa mitu yawo mopambanitsa ponena za kusiyanako. Koma matupi awo akasanduka amuna ndi akazi mitu yawo imawavutitsa za kusiyanako. Amuna ndi akazi sangaiwale kusiyana kwake. Matupi awo sadzawalola kuiwala.

 

Dziko likuyenda mwachangu kapena dziko likuchedwa. Koma kaya mofulumira kapena mochedwa—umo ndi mmene mwamuna ndi mkazi amapangira. Mobwerezabwereza kupitirira mbiri ya nthawi chitukuko chakwera; ndipo nthawi zonse idagwa ndikuzimiririka. Cholinga chake ndi chiyani! Kupindula ndi chiyani! Kukwera ndi kugwa kwachitukuko pambuyo pa chitukuko kupitilirabe mpaka mtsogolo! Zipembedzo zake, makhalidwe, ndale, malamulo, mabuku, zaluso, ndi sayansi; kupanga kwake, malonda ndi zinthu zina zofunika pa chitukuko, zakhazikitsidwa ndipo zimadalira mwamuna ndi mkazi.

Ndipo tsopano chitukuko china—chimene chikuyembekezeka kukhala chotukuka kwambiri kuposa zitukuko zonse—chikukula, ndipo chikukwezedwa ku malo okwera kwambiri—ndi mwamuna ndi mkazi. Ndipo kodi izo, nazonso, kugwa? Tsoka lake limadalira mwamuna ndi mkazi. Izo siziyenera kulephera ndi kugwa. Ngati isinthidwa kuchoka ku kusakhazikika kwake ndikumangidwira kosatha, sichidzalephera, sichingagwe!

United States of America ikuyenera kukhala bwalo lankhondo lachitukuko ichi, pomwe tsogolo la mayiko lidzakonzedwa. Koma mwamuna ndi mkazi akhoza kupanga chitukuko molingana ndi zomwe akudziwa za iwo eni. Mwamuna ndi mkazi amadziwa kuti anabadwa ndipo adzafa. Ichi ndi chimodzi mwa zifukwa za kulephera ndi kugwa kwa zitukuko zakale. Kuti mwa iwo amene amawapanga iwo mwamuna ndi mkazi samafa. Iwo umakhala kuseri kwa manda. Ikubwera kachiwiri, ndipo kachiwiri imapita. Ndipo nthawi zambiri zikamapita, zimabwerera.

Kumanga kwa muyaya mwamuna ndi mkazi ayenera kumvetsetsa ndi kuzindikira ndi kuzolowerana ndi chinthu chosafa mkati mwawo chomwe sichingathe, sichingafe, pamene maonekedwe ake monga mwamuna ndi mkazi atha ndipo pali mapeto a masiku. Chidziwitso chimenecho, chinthu chosafa chimenecho, nthawi ndi nthawi chimadzilota chowoneka ngati mwamuna kapena mkazi. M'maloto ake amafunafuna zenizeni zomwe adataya - mbali ina yake. Ndipo osachipeza m’maonekedwe akeake, amachifunafuna m’maonekedwe ena—thupi la mwamuna kapena la mkazi. Ali yekha, ndipo popanda chowonadi chotayikacho chomwe amalota, chimamva chosakwanira. Ndipo ikuyembekeza kupeza ndi kukhala ndi chisangalalo ndi kukwanira mu maonekedwe a mwamuna kapena mkazi.

Nthawi zambiri mwamuna ndi mkazi amakhala limodzi mosangalala kapena ayi. Koma kaŵirikaŵiri, ngati n’komwe, mwamuna ndi mkazi amakhala mosangalala motalikirana. Chodabwitsa chotani nanga: Mwamuna ndi mkazi sakusangalala wina ndi mnzake, ndipo sakusangalala popanda wina ndi mnzake. Ndi chokumana nacho cha miyoyo yosaŵerengeka ya kulota, mwamuna ndi mkazi sanapeze njira yothetsera mavuto awo aŵiri: Mmene angakhalire achimwemwe wina ndi mnzake; ndipo, momwe mungakhalire osangalala popanda wina ndi mzake.

Chifukwa cha kusoŵa chimwemwe ndi kusakhazikika kwa mwamuna ndi mkazi ali ndi wina ndi mnzake kapena popanda wina ndi mnzake, anthu a m’dziko lililonse akupitirizabe kukhala ndi chiyembekezo ndi mantha, kukaikira ndi kusasungika, ndi maonekedwe achimwemwe okha, anzeru, ndi chidaliro. Pagulu ndi mseri, pali chiwembu ndi kukonza; pali kuthamanga apa ndi kuthamangira uko, kuti ndifike ndi kupeza, ndi kusakhutitsidwa konse. Umbombo umabisika ndi chigonjetso cha kuwolowa manja; woyipa amaseka pambali pa ukoma wa anthu; chinyengo, udani, kusaona mtima, mantha, ndi bodza zovekedwa ndi mawu abwino kuti akokere ndi msampha ochenjera ndi ochenjera; ndipo zigawenga zolinganiza zimayenda mopanda manyazi ndipo zimalanda nyama poyera pomwe malamulo amatsalira m'mbuyo.

Mwamuna ndi mkazi amamanga chakudya, kapena chuma, kapena dzina, kapena mphamvu, kuti akhutitse mwamuna ndi mkazi. Sangakhutire konse, monga mwamuna ndi mkazi chabe. Tsankho, nsanje, chinyengo, kaduka, kusilira, kupsa mtima, chidani, njiru, ndi mbewu za izi tsopano zikuikidwa ndi kumangidwa m’mapangidwe a chitukuko chimene chikukula ichi. Ngati sanachotsedwe kapena kusinthidwa, malingaliro a izi mosapeŵeka adzaphuka ndi kutuluka kunja monga nkhondo ndi matenda, ndipo imfa idzakhala mapeto a mwamuna ndi mkazi ndi chitukuko chawo; ndipo dziko lapansi ndi madzi a m’maiko onse zidzasiyidwa pang’ono kapenanso sadzakhalapo konse. Ngati chitukukochi chipitirire ndi kutsekereza kuphulika ndi kugwa kwa zitukuko, mwamuna ndi mkazi ayenera kuzindikira kukhazikika kwa matupi awo ndi m'chilengedwe; ayenera kuphunzira chomwe chiri chinthu chosafa mwa iwo; ayenera kumvetsetsa kuti ilibe kugonana; ayenera kumvetsa chifukwa chake amapangira mwamuna mwamuna ndi mkazi mkazi; ndipo, bwanji ndi momwe wolotayo ali tsopano mu maonekedwe mwamuna kapena mkazi.

Chilengedwe ndi chachikulu, chodabwitsa kuposa maloto a mwamuna kapena mkazi. Ndipo zambiri zomwe zimadziwika, ndizomwe zimasonyezedwa zochepa zomwe zimadziwika, poyerekeza ndi zomwe ziyenera kudziwika za kukula ndi zinsinsi za chilengedwe. Kutamandidwa kopanda malire kuyenera kwa amuna ndi akazi omwe awonjezera thumba lachidziwitso chotchedwa sayansi. Koma zovuta ndi zovuta za chilengedwe zidzawonjezeka ndi kupitiriza kupeza ndi kutulukira. Mtunda, muyeso, kulemera, kukula, siziyenera kudaliridwa ngati malamulo omvetsetsa chilengedwe. Pali cholinga m'chilengedwe chonse, ndipo machitidwe onse achilengedwe ndi oti akwaniritse cholinga chimenecho. Mwamuna ndi mkazi akudziwapo kanthu za kusintha kwina kwa chilengedwe, koma sadziwa za kupitiriza kwa cholinga ndi kukhalitsa kupyolera mu chilengedwe, chifukwa sadziwa kupitiriza ndi kukhazikika kwa iwo eni.

Kukumbukira kwaumunthu kuli ndi mphamvu zinayi: kuona, kumva, kulawa, ndi kununkhiza. Memory of the Self is of The Muyaya: kupitiriza mosadodometsedwa ndi kusintha kwa nthawi, kusayamba ndi kutha; ndiko kuti, Dongosolo Lamuyaya la Kupita patsogolo.

Mwamuna ndi mkazi adataya chidziwitso chomwe anali nacho kale ponena za iwo eni komanso za kukhazikika m'chilengedwe, ndipo kuyambira pamenepo, akhala akungoyendayenda muumbuli ndi mavuto mu labyrinths ndi kusintha kwa dziko la mwamuna-ndi-mkazi. Mwamuna ndi mkazi akhoza kupitiriza kuyendayenda ngati asankha, koma angathenso, ndipo nthawi zina adzayamba kupeza njira yotuluka mu imfa ndi kubadwa ndi kudziŵa chidziwitso chomwe chiyenera kukhala chawo - ndi chimene chikuwayembekezera. . Mwamuna kapena mkazi amene adzalandira chidziwitsocho akhoza kulingalira mosamalitsa ndondomeko ya chilengedwe ndi chiyambi ndi mbiri yawo, ndi momwe adataya njira yawo ndikukhala m'matupi a amuna ndi akazi omwe alimo lero.

 

Zikhala bwino pano kulingalira mwachidule malo a munthu mu dongosolo lophatikiza zonse la zinthu, zolengedwa ndi Luntha, mkati mwa Chowonadi Chimodzi: Chikumbumtima Mtheradi; ndiko kuti, ubale wa Wochita, mbali imodzi, ku chilengedwe ndipo, kumbali ina, kwa Utatu wosakhoza kufa womwe iye ali gawo lake. Komabe, popeza chilengedwe ndi munthu ndizovuta kwambiri, sizotheka kapena kofunika pazifukwa zapano kungojambula mwachidule magawo ndi magawo awo ambiri.

Pali “zinthu” zinayi zoyambilira, mmene zinthu zonse ndi zolengedwa zinachokera. Chifukwa chosowa mawu achindunji, akunenedwa pano kukhala zinthu monga moto, mpweya, madzi, ndi dziko lapansi. Mawu amenewa sakutanthauza zimene anthu ambiri amawamvetsa.

Maelementi amapangidwa ndi mayunitsi osawerengeka. Chigawo ndi chosagawanika, chosawonongeka, chosasinthika. Mayunitsi mwina ndi opanda nzeru kumbali ya chilengedwe, kapena anzeru kumbali yanzeru ya chilengedwe chachikulu.

Chilengedwe, kumbali ya chilengedwe, ndi makina opangidwa ndi mayunitsi achilengedwe, omwe amadziwa. as ntchito yawo yokha.

Pali mitundu inayi ya mayunitsi achilengedwe: mayunitsi aulere, mayunitsi osakhalitsa, mayunitsi ophatikizira, ndi mayunitsi omveka. Magawo aulere amatha kudutsa paliponse mwachilengedwe, m'mitsinje yamagulu oyenda, koma samamangidwa ndi zinthu zomwe amadutsamo. Magawo osakhalitsa amaphatikizana ndi mayunitsi ena ndipo amakhala kwakanthawi; amapangidwa kuti alowe, ndipo motero amamanga kuwoneka ndi kuoneka, mawonekedwe amkati ndi maonekedwe akunja a mchere, zomera, zinyama ndi matupi aumunthu, kumene amakhala kwa kanthawi, kuti alowe m'malo mwa ena; kenako nkuyendereranso m’mitsinje yamagulu odukaduka. Zina mwa mawonekedwe a magawo osakhalitsa ndi mphamvu za chilengedwe, monga mphamvu yokoka, magetsi, maginito, ndi mphezi. Ma compositor mayunitsi amapanga mayunitsi osakhalitsa molingana ndi mawonekedwe; amamanga matupi a maselo, ziwalo ndi machitidwe anayi m'thupi la munthu-zotulutsa, kupuma, kuzungulira ndi kugaya chakudya. Mtundu wachinayi wa mayunitsi a chilengedwe, mayunitsi a mphamvu, ndi mphamvu za kupenya, kumva, kulawa ndi kununkhiza, zomwe zimalamulira machitidwe anayi ndikugwirizanitsa zinthu za chilengedwe kwa iwo.

Kuonjezela pa mitundu inayi ya mayunitsi a m’chilengedwe muli, mwa munthu ndi mmenemo mokha, gawo la mpangidwe wa mpweya—liwu lofotokoza zimene zikunenedwa kukhala “moyo wamoyo.” Mawonekedwe a gawo la mawonekedwe a mpweya nthawi zambiri amatchulidwa pamene "moyo" ndipo, mu psychology, "subconscious" kapena "unconscious" akuganiziridwa; mbali ya mpweya wa mpweya ndi mpweya umene umalowa m'thupi la khanda ndi mpweya woyamba. Palibe nyama yomwe ili ndi mawonekedwe a mpweya.

Pali gawo limodzi lokha la mpweya m'thupi la munthu. Imakhalabe ndi thupilo panthawi yamoyo, ndipo paimfa imatsagana ndi Doer of the Triune Self kumadera oyambilira akufa; pambuyo pake imalumikizananso ndi Wochita monga Wopangayo akukonzekera moyo wina padziko lapansi. Chigawo cha mawonekedwe a mpweya chimagwirizanitsa mphamvu zinayi ndi machitidwe anayi ndikupitirizabe kugwira ntchito mayunitsi onse a thupi. Mawonekedwe a mpweya amakhala kutsogolo kapena kutsogolo theka la thupi la pituitary mu ubongo. Kuchokera pamenepo imayang'anira ndikugwirizanitsa ntchito zonse zodziyimira pawokha za thupi, ndipo mu theka lakumbuyo limalumikizana mwachindunji ndi chinthu chozindikira chomwe chili m'thupi, Wochita wa Triune Self.

Ndiyeno pali gawo lomwe limagwirizanitsa mbali yanzeru ndi chilengedwe-mbali mwa munthu, yotchedwa aia. Nthawi yamoyo aia amagwira ntchito ngati mkhalapakati pakati pa mawonekedwe a mpweya ndi Wopanga m'thupi; m'maboma pambuyo pa imfa imagwira ntchito zina zotsimikizika ndipo, ikafika nthawi yoti Wopanga akhalenso, aia imathandizira mawonekedwe a mpweya kuyambitsa kutenga pakati ndipo, pambuyo pake, kubadwa kwa thupi.

Munthu yense ali kumbali yanzeru ya chilengedwe chonse, chifukwa chokhala ndi gawo la Doer la munthu wosakhoza kufa, utatu wamunthu, pano wotchedwa Triune Self. Mwa mwamuna kapena mkazi aliyense pali gawo lodzipatula la Triune Self yodzidziwa komanso yosafa. Utatu Utatu uwu, munthu uyu-osati wa chilengedwe chonse-utatu ali, monga momwe dzinalo likusonyezera, magawo atatu: Wodziwa kapena chidziwitso ndi chidziwitso, gawo la noetic; Woganiza kapena kulondola ndi kulingalira, gawo lamalingaliro; ndi Wopanga kapena kumverera ndi chikhumbo, gawo lazamatsenga. Mwa mwamuna ndi mkazi aliyense pali gawo la Doer gawo la Triune Self. The Doer amakhalanso m'thupi la munthu pambuyo pa mnzake, motero amakhala moyo kuchokera kumoyo kupita kumoyo, wolekanitsidwa ndi nthawi m'maboma ambiri pambuyo pa imfa. Kusinthasintha uku pakati pa moyo wapadziko lapansi ndi moyo wa pambuyo pa imfa kumasonyezedwa ndi kudzuka ndi kugona. Zonse ndi zigawo za Doer yemwe alipo komanso amadziwa. Chosiyana ndichakuti pambuyo pa imfa Wochita sabwerera ku thupi lomwe lamwalira, koma ayenera kudikirira mpaka thupi latsopano litakonzedwa ndi makolo amtsogolo ndikukonzekereratu kulandira Wochita.

 

Pali zomwe mkati mwa mbiri yocheperako komanso yoyiwalika ya munthu aliyense zomwe zidapangitsa Wopanga mwa mwamuna ndi mkazi aliyense kukhala gawo lodzipatula la kudzidziwa kwake komanso kusafa kwa Triune Self. Kalekale, Knower, Thinker and Doer anali mmodzi wosalekanitsidwa, wosafa wa Triune Self, mu Dziko la Permanence, lomwe limanenedwa mofala kuti Paradaiso, kapena Munda wa Edeni, mu “Adamu” wopanda kugonana, wangwiro, thupi lolinganiza bwino, mkati mwa dziko lapansi —limene thupi, pokhala langwiro, kaŵirikaŵiri limatchedwa “kachisi woyamba, wosapangidwa ndi manja a munthu.”

Mwachidule, kuthamangitsidwa kumeneku kuchokera ku The Realm of Permanence kudabwera chifukwa cha kulephera kwa onse a Doers omwe pambuyo pake adakhala anthu, kuti adutse mayeso ena, omwe kunali kofunikira kuti onse a Doers adutse, kuti amalize Triune Selves. . Kulephera kumeneku kunapanga chotchedwa, “tchimo loyambirira,” kuti “Adamu,” kapena m’malo mwake Adamu ndi Hava m’matupi awo amapasa, anavutika ndi “kugwa kwa munthu.” Mwa kulephera kwawo kupambana chiyeso chimenecho, iwo anathamangitsidwa mu “Paradaiso” mkati mwa dziko lapansi kumtunda wakunja wa dziko lapansi.

Unyinji wa Ochita amene chotero “anachimwa,” amakhala monga amuna ndi akazi m’matupi awo aumunthu, ogonjera ku kusoŵa kwa chakudya chakuthupi, ndi kubadwa ndi imfa, ndi imfa ndi kubadwa. Magawo oyenera a matupi awo omwe kale anali osagonana anali atakhala opanda malire, ndipo anali momwe alili tsopano, amuna ndi akazi ndi amuna, ndipo Doers anali amuna ndi akazi - kapena chikhumbo-chikhumbo ndi chikhumbo, monga momwe zidzafotokozedwera. .

 

Kupitiliza mwachidule ndi ubale wa munthu ku Chilengedwe ndi chilengedwe. Chilengedwe chomwe chili ndi zinthu zinayi zomwe zidapangidwapo kale, moto, mpweya, madzi ndi dziko lapansi, ndi mayunitsi achilengedwe komanso mayunitsi anzeru. Mitundu inayi ya mayunitsi a chilengedwe - yaulere, yachidule, yojambula, ndi mayunitsi amalingaliro - ndizomwe zimapangidwira pazinthu zonse, zinthu ndi matupi mu makina akulu achilengedwe. Mayunitsi onse a chilengedwe akuyenda mosalekeza, ndipo onse amatenga nawo mbali pang'onopang'ono, pang'onopang'ono, koma chitukuko chopita patsogolo, chiwerengerocho chimakhala chokhazikika komanso chosasinthika. Magawo achilengedwe amazindikira as ntchito zawo zokha, koma mayunitsi omwe ali kumbali yanzeru amadziwa of or as zomwe ali.

Pali malire a kupita patsogolo kwa mayunitsi a chilengedwe, mayunitsi apamwamba kwambiri a chilengedwe ndi mphamvu za kupenya, kumva, kulawa ndi kununkhiza. Digiri yotsatirayi ndi ya gawo lopumira, lomwe limatsagana ndi Wopanga moyo ndi imfa ndipo, m'moyo, ndiye njira yolumikizirana pakati pa Wopanga ndi chilengedwe. Lili ndi mbali yogwira ntchito komanso yopanda pake, mbali yogwira ntchito ndi mpweya, ndipo mbali yotsalira imakhala mawonekedwe a thupi. Ndi kulira koyamba pa kubadwa mpaka kupuma komaliza pa imfa, mpweya, umene uli kuwirikiza kanayi, umazungulira ndi kutuluka ndi kudutsa mbali iliyonse ya thupi.

Ungwiro—cholinga chobisika ndi chosadziŵika cha kuyesayesa kwaumunthu—kumatanthauza kuti zigawo zosalinganizika tsopano za thupi la munthu zidzakhala zitalinganizidwa; ndiko kuti, iwo sadzakhalanso amuna kapena akazi, koma adzapangidwa ndi maselo opanda kugonana, olinganizika. Kenako Wochita adzakhalanso m'thupi lake langwiro; sichidzavutika ndi matenda ndi imfa, ndipo sichidzafuna chakudya chambiri, koma chidzachirikizidwa ndi kudyetsedwa ndi kupuma kwa moyo wamuyaya, wosasokonezedwa ndi nyengo za kugona kapena imfa. Wopangayo adzakhala mogwirizana ndi Woganiza-Wodziwa, mu thupi langwiro la unyamata wamuyaya - kachisi wachiwiri - mu Dziko la Permanence, Wamuyaya.

 

Powunikiranso mbiri yake yoyiwalika, Wochita wosafa m'thupi la mwamuna ndi mkazi aliyense atha kumvetsetsa momwe adadzithamangitsira kuchoka ku Triune Self in The Realm of Permanence ndipo tsopano watayika m'thupi - woyendayenda mwa mwamuna ndi mkazi kudziko lobadwira. ndi imfa ndi kubadwanso.

Kuwonetsa momwe zonsezi zidakhalira, komanso kuti ndizotheka kuti munthu atengenso ulusi womwe unathyoledwa m'mbuyomu, ndipo potero atenge njira zoyambira kubwerera ku The Realm of Permanence, ndi cholinga. wa bukhu ili.