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MAWU

MITU YA NKHANI

(Kupitilizidwa)

Mthunzi wanu usachepeko. Popanda kudziwa tanthauzo lake mawuwa nthawi zambiri amagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi omwe amakhala ndi chidwi ndi amene akulangizidwa. Itha kugwiritsidwa ntchito ngati chizindikiro cha ulemu, moni, kapena kupereka ulemu. Amagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi mafuko amdima a equatorial Africa ndi South Seas, komanso ndi anthu okongola achikopa a kumadzulo kwa kumpoto. Ena amatengera tanthauzo lalikulu ndi mawu oti; ena amawagwiritsa ntchito mopepuka ngati sawupereka. Monga momwe mawu ambiri amagwiritsidwira ntchito, tanthauzo la ili ndilofunika kwambiri kuposa momwe akuganizira. Mawuwo ayenera kuti adapangidwa kapena kugwiritsidwa ntchito poyambirira ndi omwe amadziwa zomwe mithunzi ili. "Mthunzi wanu usachepera" kutanthauza kuti munthu akhoza kukula mpaka kukhala wangwiro komanso kuti adzakhala ndi moyo osatha masiku onse. Popanda thupi lanyama kutulutsa, sitingathe kuwona mthunzi mdziko lathupi. Thupi lolimba kuposa momwe limakhalira likhala mthunzi wake pakuwoneka. Mthunzi wa munthu utayatsidwa ndi kuwala ndikuwoneka, chiwonetseranso mkhalidwe wamthupi. Ngati mthunzi ukuwonjezeka mphamvu zikuwonetsa thanzi lolingana ndi thupi. Koma monga thupi lanyama liyenera kufa panthawi ina, kuti munthu akhale ndi moyo osatha zikutanthauza kuti mthunzi uyenera kudzipatula payokha. Kotero kuti mthunzi wa munthu usakule kwenikweni kumatanthauza kuti thupi lake lakufupi, mawonekedwe a thupi lake, lidzakhala langwiro, komanso lodziyimira palokha la thupi, kuti azikhala m'mibadwo yonse. Izi sizingakhale pokhapokha ngati mthunzi, m'malo momangokhala momwe zilili tsopano, mawonekedwe a mawonekedwe a thupi, amawonjezereka mu mphamvu ndi mphamvu ndikukhala, momwe ungakhalire, ukulu kuposa thupi lathupi.

Kuchokera pazomwe zanenedwa, ndipo munthu akayamba kudziwa bwino mithunzi, zidzamveka kuti mthunzi suli, monga momwe zimaganiziridwira, kusokoneza kuwala, koma kuti ndi mthunzi is chithunzi chofananira kapena chofananira chomwe chimawonetsedwa ndi mbali yowunikirayo yomwe thupi lathu silingathe kuyilandira yomwe imadutsa ndikukhala nayo mthunzi. M'matupi amoyo wolinganizidwa, mthunzi womwe umaponyedwera si wa tinthu tating'onoting'ono. Ndi zomwe zimadutsa ndikulumikiza ndikugwirizira pamodzi tinthu tating'onoting'ono kapena maselo amthupi. Kope la munthu wosawoneka ndi wamkatiyu yemwe amasunga ma cell amthupi pamodzi limawonetsedwa mlengalenga ndipo limatha kudziwika, zonse zamkati zimawoneka. Momwe thupi liliri lidzawoneka monga zilili panopo komanso momwe zidzakhalire munthawi inayake, chifukwa thupi limangokhala mawonekedwe akunja ndi amene amachokera m'thupi losaoneka la munthu mkati mwake.

Mthunzi wa gulu lolinganizidwa la moyo limatsimikiziridwa ndi kuunika, chimodzimodzi monga chithunzi pathanthwe; koma chithunzicho pansipa kapena filimuyo chikhoza kuwoneka chosindikizidwa ndi kuwunikira pamtunda, chikukonzekera kugwira chidwi chake, palibe malo omwe adadziwika kuti agwire ndikuwonetsa mthunzi monga momwe akuwunikira ndi kuwunikira.

Chifukwa chakuwoneka kukhala kosatheka komanso kusatsimikizika komwe kumalumikizidwa ndi mithunzi, lingaliro la mithunzi ngati mutu wophunzirira lingawonekere zachilendo. Kuwerenga kwamithunzi kungapangitse munthu kukayikira umboni wa mphamvu zake komanso zenizeni za zinthu zakuthupi m'dziko lapansi latsopanoli zokhudza iye. Yemwe amadziwa zochepa zamathunzi amadziwa zochepa za thupi. Dziko lakuthupi ndi zinthu zonse zili mmenemo zimadziwika pazofunikira zawo molingana ndi kuchuluka kwa chidziwitso chomwe munthu ali nacho pamithunzi. Wina aphunzira momwe zinthu zakuthupi zimakhalira mwa kudziwa mithunzi. Mwa kuphunzira ndi kuchita moyenera ndi mithunzi, munthu amatha kukwera kuchokera kudziko lapansi kupita kusakasaka lakelo. Pali mithunzi yoponyedwa kapena yoyesedwa kuchokera kumitundu itatu mwa maulamuliro anayi akuwonetsedwa, ndipo pali mitundu yambiri yamithunzi padziko lonse lapansi.

Chisamaliro chochepa chaperekedwa ku mithunzi chifukwa chimayesedwa kuti kulibe. Zinthu zomwe zimawoneka kuti zimayambitsa mithunzi ndi matupi athupi. Timayang'ana matupi athupi lathu pazomwe zimawoneka kuti ndizofunika koma timaona mthunzi ngati zopanda pake, ndipo timawona ngati zapamwamba zomwe mithunzi ina imatulutsa. Tikamaphunzira kuti mithunzi ilipo zenizeni tidzaphunziranso kuti mthunzi, osati mawonekedwe omwe akuwonetsedwa, samapangitsidwa ndi thupi lanyama lomwe limawoneka kuti limayambitsa, koma mwa mawonekedwe osawoneka amunthu mkati mwa thupi. Thupi lathupi limalepheretsa kuwala kumaonekera ndipo potero limapereka chiwonetsero kwa mthunzi, ndizo zonse. Pamene wina ayang'ana mokwanira mokwanira ndipo akumvetsetsa mthunzi wake amawona kuti ndi mawonekedwe a mawonekedwe osawoneka omwe ali mkati mwa thupi lake opangidwa ndi kuwala komwe kumadutsamo. Womwe akudziwa kufunikira kwa mthunzi ndi zomwe zimayambitsa kuwona thupi lamunthu amatha kuyang'anitsitsa mpaka atayang'anitsitsa mwa iye ndikuzindikira mawonekedwe osawonekayo, kenaka thupi limasowa, kapena kuwoneka ndikungowona ngati mthunzi. Kodi pamenepo ndiye kuti thupi lenilenilo ndilo lingaliro lenileni? Sizili choncho.

Thupi lanyama ndi locheperako kuposa mthunzi wa mawonekedwe ake ndipo thupi lanyama silofanana kwenikweni komanso lathamanga ngati lomwe limatchedwa mthunzi wake. Chotsani chinthu, mthunziwo ukazimiririka. Thupi la thupi lathu likachotsedwa ngati munthu akafa, thupi lake limawola ndikuchoka. Ena anganene kuti zonena kuti zakuthupi ndizithunzi zambiri monga zomwe zimatchedwa mthunzi, sizowona, chifukwa mthunzi umachoka pomwepo ndikuchotsa mawonekedwe omwe adayambitsa, koma thupi la munthu limatha zaka zambiri pambuyo pa imfa. Ndizowona kuti mithunzi imasowa nthawi imodzi ndipo thupi limakhalabe ndi mawonekedwe atafa kale. Koma izi sizimatsutsa kuti ndi mthunzi. Mthunzi wa munthu umadutsa pomwe amasuntha thupi lake ndipo mthunzi wake suwoneka kapena malo omwe akuwoneka kuti wachoka; chifukwa, choyamba, wowonera sangathe kuwona mthunzi weniweniwo ndipo amawona mawonekedwe owalako chabe; Ndipo, chachiwiri, malo omwe mthunziwo udayikidwapo ndi malo pomwe sadakonzeke ndipo sangasunge momwe mawonekedwe momwe mimvawo uliri. Komabe pamwamba pomwe mthunziwo umaponyedwamo umakhalabe ndi mawonekedwe owoneka bwino a mthunziwo, ngati mawonekedwewo adakhalitsa nthawi yayitali komanso osasunthika mokwanira kuti kuwunika kudutsako kudutsira chidwi chake mwatsatanetsatane. Kumbali ina, maselo kapena tinthu tomwe timapangidwa ndi thupi limakhala ndi makina ndipo limasinthana wina ndi mnzake ndi mawonekedwe omwe amathandizirana ndipo amakhala m'malo momwe amakondera maginito wina ndi mnzake. Mibadwo imafunikira kuti chilengedwe chizikhala, motsogozedwa ndi anzeru, kuti chizitha kupereka zinthu mwakuthupi momwe zinthu zosaoneka zitha kutsimikizidwira ndi kusungidwa molingana ndi mawonekedwe omwe saoneka momwe thupili limapangidwira koma mthunzi wopangidwa m'njira yofanana komanso yowoneka. Dziko lapansi ili ndi mapiri ake obowola, mapiri ake otumphuka, nkhalango zazikulu, mapiri atchire, mabwinja ake, zitseko zake, mawonekedwe ake akuya ndi miphando, zipinda zake zokongola zamiyala, komanso mitundu yonse yomwe imadutsa momwe imapezekera. pamwamba pake, ndizithunzi chabe.

Pali mitundu yambiri ndi madigiri a matupi athupi, koma onse ndi mithunzi chabe.

Kwa malingaliro sizikuwoneka kuti nkhumba, mapiramidi, mtengo, kusisita, mkazi wokongola, mkazi wokongola, ndi mithunzi. Koma zilipo. Sitikuwona mitundu ya nkhumba, piramidi, mtengo, nyani kapena mkazi. Timawona mithunzi yawo yokha. Pafupifupi aliyense angalole kukana kapena kunyoza mawu oti mawonekedwe ake onse ndi mithunzi. Koma omwe anganyoze mawuwo satha kufotokoza momwe ma kristalo amapangidwira, ndipo kuchokera pati, momwe golide amapangidwira, momwe mbewu imakulira mtengo, momwe chakudya chimasinthidwira kukhala minofu ya thupi, chonyansa kapena thupi lokongola laumunthu limapangidwa kuchokera ku nyongolosi yomwe ili yaying'ono kuposa njere yamchenga.

Malinga ndi malamulo komanso tanthauzo la mthunzi, izi zitha kufotokozedwa ndikumvetsetsa. Pa chinthu chamoyo thupi lake limasungidwa ndi chakudya; chakudya, chomwe chiri cha kuwunika ndi mpweya ndi madzi ndi nthaka. Zakudya zinayi izi ngakhale zopanda pake palokha zimakhazikitsidwa kapena kuziyika mulu wosungika malinga ndi mawonekedwe osawoneka. Chakudya chikamalowetsedwa m'thupi sakanakhoza kugayidwa komanso kudyedwa, koma kuwola, sichinali chifukwa cha mpweya womwe umagwira magaziwo ngati kuwala ndikuwukakamiza magaziwo kuti atenge chakudya ndikuwunyamula ndikuuyika m'malo osiyanasiyana ziwalo za thupi molingana ndi mawonekedwe ofunikira m'thupi, ndi kunja kunsi kwa mbali zake. Pomwe bola kupuma kapena kuwala kupitiriza ndipo mawonekedwe ake amakhalabe, mthunzi wake, thupi lanyama, umasungidwa. Koma pamene kuwala kapena kupuma kukuchoka, monga paimfa, ndiye kuti mthunzi wake wathupi umayenera kuwola ndi kuwonongeka, monga mthunzi umazimiririka ndikuchotsa chinthu kapena kuzimitsa kuwunikira komwe kumapangitsa icho.

Anthu monga malingaliro ndi mawonekedwe awo omwe amachita momwemo amakhala m'mithunzi yawo, matupi awo, ndipo amayenda mdziko lamithunzi, ngakhale sakhulupirira mithunzi yawo. Amasaka mithunzi yomwe amawona ngati ndi yeniyeni ndipo amapweteketsedwa, amakhumudwa ndikuphwanyidwa izi zikamachoka. Kuti muchepetse kupwetekaku ndikusasunthika, munthu sayenera kuthamangitsa mithunzi kapena kuthawa; ayenera kupitilirabe ndi kuphunzira za iwo, kufikira atapeza zomwe zidzakhale mdziko lapansi zosinthira mithunzi.

(Zipitilizidwa)