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ZINTHU ZIMENE ZINALI ANTHU ENA

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Zotupa ndi Madalitso

KULIMA ndiko kupanga njira yolumikizirana yomwe mizukwa yachilengedwe imayambitsa mavuto ena kutsata ndikutsikira pa munthu wotembereredwa. Kutukwana nthawi zambiri kumapangitsa kuti pakhale cholengedwa chomwe chimadukiza ndikuchotsa zoipa zomwe zatembereredwa ndikupanga zomwe zitha kuzunzidwa ndi iye amene zimutemberera. Ngati kutemberedwa kutembereredwa sikungakhale koyenera kwa iye yemwe waponyedwa, koma kumam'gwera iye amene atemberera, pokhapokha ngati iye amene atembereredwa apatsa temberero ufulu kuti amukhudze. Ufuluwu komanso mphamvuzi zimaperekedwa ndi ena kuchita zinthu zoyipa kwa iye amene atemberera kapena munthu wina wachitatu. Temberero likhoza kukhala chida chokhacho chomwe zochotseredwa zimakokera kwa iye amene walakwira. Temberero la abambo makamaka mayi mayi ndi lochititsa mantha komanso lamphamvu, ngati linaponyedwa kwa mwana woipa. Temberero ndi lachindunji komanso lamphamvu chifukwa cha magazi ndi maubwenzi achizungu a kholo ndi mwana. Momwemonso, themberero la mwana motsutsana ndi kholo lomwe lazunza ndi kulipondereza, litha kulandiridwa ndi zotsatira zoyipa. Temberero la mtsikana wochotsedwa kwa wokondedwa yemwe wadula msuzi wake limatha kumuwononga.

Mphamvu ya themberero ili m'ndende momwe imakhazikikidwira munthawi yaying'ono ya zoyipa zambiri zomwe, mwa zinthu wamba, zitha kugawidwa ndikukumana nayo nthawi yayitali, monga, kupitilira moyo kapena miyoyo ingapo, ndipo zoipa ziti zikadalandidwa mphamvu zawo zosweka. Temberero likatchulidwa moyenerera ndi munthu amene mwachilengedwe kapena amene wochita zoyipayo wamupatsa mphamvu yakujambula izi ndikuziwonjezera kwa iye ndikuzigwetsa pa iye, kenako kutembereredwa, ndikumakhala kowopsa.

Pafupifupi mwamuna aliyense, m'moyo wake, amapereka zida zokwanira kupanga thupi lotembereredwa. Ichi si chithunzi. Tikamayankhula za thupi lotembereredwa, timanena zenizeni, chifukwa themberero ndi chinthu choyambira. Thupi lake limapangidwa ndi zoyipa zina, ndipo izi ndizo, mwa kupangika kwa choyambirira, choyikidwa mu mawonekedwe ndipo cholinganizidwa ndi mawu otembereredwa, ngati atatchulidwa ndi amodzi mwa magulu awiri a anthu omwe atchulidwa pamwambapa, ndiye kuti , omwe ali ndi mphamvu mwachilengedwe, ndi omwe wochita zoyipawo adawakwaniritsa ndikulakwitsa kapena munthu wachitatu.

Choyambira chomwe chimapangidwa ngati temberero chimakhala mpaka tembererolo litakwaniritsidwa, ndipo moyo wake umakhala motere. Wotembererayo angalandire kudzoza kwadzidzidzi kuti apange temberero, ndiyeno mawu a temberero amawoneka ngati akuyenda mwachibadwa ndipo nthawi zambiri momveka bwino kudzera pakamwa pake. Anthu sangatemberere mwakufuna kwawo. Anthu amwano, ankhanza, audani sangatemberere mwakufuna kwawo. Atha kugwiritsa ntchito mawu omwe amamveka ngati temberero, koma mawu oterowo alibe mphamvu yopangira zoyambira. Kulengedwa kwa elemental, yomwe ndi temberero lenileni, ndizotheka ngati mikhalidwe ikugwirizana ndi zomwe zatchulidwa.

Pafupifupi munthu aliyense ali ndi dzanja lokwanira kupereka thupi lotembereredwa, komabe sizingatheke kuyambitsa maziko ngati wochita zolakwayo angachite zinthu zabwino, zomwe ndi zolimba kuti zitha kulenga oyambira.

madalitso

Monga zinthu zakuthupi komanso popanga chinthu choyambirira chomwe chimakhala themberero lake, chimaperekedwa ndi malingaliro ndi ntchito za munthu wotembereredwa, momwemonso munthu angapereke malingaliro abwino ndi zochita zabwino, kuti athandizire amene ali ndi mphatso zachilengedwe. wodalitsika, kapena iye mwa chozizwitsa chapadera cha iye kuti adalitsidwe, amapangidwa chida chanthawi yake, kuti ayitane ndi kumudalitsa.

Dalitso ndi lofunikira, thupi lomwe limapangidwa ndimaganizo am'mbuyomu ndi machitidwe a munthu wodalitsika. Zoyambira zimatha kupangika pakafunika nthawi yabwino, monga kuchoka kwa makolo kapena kumwalira, kapena kulowa paulendo, kapena kuyamba ntchito. Anthu omwe ndi odwala, osawoneka bwino kapena achisoni, ndipo makamaka pakati pao okalamba, atha kudalitsika mdalitsika kwa iye yemwe wayesetsa kuchita zabwino.

Kuphatikiza pamagawo awiri a anthu omwe atchulidwa, omwe ali ndi mphatso zachilengedwe zodalitsa kapena zotemberera, komanso omwe wamtsogolo amapanga chida choyenera chotemberera kapena kumudalitsa, pali gulu la anthu omwe kudziwa malamulo omwe nthawi zambiri samadziwika ndipo ndani angatchule kutemberera temberero limodzi kapena zingapo zamatsenga oyipa kwa munthu, ndikuyipitsa moyo wa iye wotembereredwa, kapena amene angagwirizanitse chinthu chabwino kwa munthu ndi choncho mpatseni mngelo womuteteza, Yemwe amutchinjiriza panthawi yamavuto, kapena Omuthandiza pochita. Koma munthawi zonse, zomwe zimachitika ziyenera kuchitidwa molingana ndi lamulo la karma ndipo sizingachitike konse motsutsana nazo.

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