THE

MAWU

UBWENZI

MONGA ulemu, kuwolowa manja, chilungamo, kuona mtima, choonadi ndi makhalidwe ena abwino pogwiritsiridwa ntchito kaŵirikaŵiri ndi mopanda tsankho ndi osasamala, ubwenzi umanenedwa ndipo zitsimikiziro za ubwenzi zimaperekedwa ndi kuvomerezedwa kulikonse; koma, monga makhalidwe enawo, ndipo, ngakhale kuti zimamveka mumlingo wina ndi anthu onse, ndi chiyanjano ndi chikhalidwe chosowa kwambiri.

Kulikonse kumene anthu angapo asonkhanitsidwa palimodzi, maubwenzi amapangidwa pakati pa ena amene amasonyeza kusalabadira kapena kusakonda kwa ena. Pali chimene anyamata akusukulu amachitcha kuti ubwenzi wawo. Amasinthanitsa zinsinsi ndikuchita nawo zosangalatsa zomwezo ndi masewera ndi zidule ndi zopusa chifukwa cha unyamata. Pali msungwana wamashopu, msungwana wamakwaya, ubwezi wa atsikana agulu. Amauzana zinsinsi zawo; amathandizana wina ndi mnzake pokwaniritsa zolinga zawo, ndipo wina amayembekezeka kuchita chinyengo chilichonse chaching'ono chomwe chingapititse patsogolo zolinga za mnzake, kapena kumuteteza pamene sakufuna; ubale wawo amalola munthu unbosom yekha kwa ena mwa zinthu zambiri zofunika zazing'ono zimene pali chidwi wamba.

Amuna amalonda amalankhula za maubwenzi awo, omwe nthawi zambiri amachitidwa m'njira yamalonda pamalonda. Zokomera zikapemphedwa ndikuperekedwa zimabwezedwa. Aliyense adzapereka chithandizo chandalama ndi chithandizo ndikubwereketsa dzina lake kumabizinesi a mnzake ndi ngongole, koma amayembekezera kubweza mwanjira ina. Ngozi nthawi zina zimatengedwa m'mabwenzi abizinesi ndi wina kuthandiza mnzake pomwe zokonda zake zili pachiwopsezo; ndipo ubwenzi wamalonda wafutukulidwa kumlingo umene wina waika kwa mnzake gawo lalikulu la chuma chake, kotero kuti winayo, akuwopa kutayika kapena kulandidwa chuma chake, angachipezenso. Koma uwu si ubwenzi weniweni wamalonda. Ubwenzi weniweni wamalonda ungakhale wodziŵika ndi kulingalira kwa mwamuna wa Wall Street amene, pamene ali wokonzeka kulinganiza ndi kuyandama kampani ya migodi ya mtengo wokayikitsa, ndi kulakalaka kuisonyeza nyonga ndi kuima, akuti: “Ndidzalangiza Bambo Moneybox. ndi Bambo Dollarbill ndi Bambo Churchwarden, za kampaniyo. Iwo ndi anzanga. Ndidzawapempha kuti atenge magawo ambiri a stock ndikuwapanga kukhala otsogolera. Anzako angapindule chiyani ngati sutha kuwagwiritsa ntchito.” Ubwenzi wa ndale umafunika kuthandizira chipani, kulimbikitsana ndi kupititsa patsogolo zolinga za wina ndi mzake, kukhazikitsidwa kwa bilu iliyonse, mosasamala kanthu kuti ili yolungama, yopindulitsa kwa anthu ammudzi, imapereka mwayi wapadera, kapena ndi chikhalidwe chachinyengo ndi chonyansa. "Kodi ndingadalire ubwenzi wanu," mtsogoleriyo akufunsa m'modzi mwa omwe amamutsatira pamene njira yonyansa iyenera kukakamizidwa pa chipani chake ndi kukakamizidwa kwa anthu. “Uli nazo, ndipo ndidzakuthetsa,” ndilo yankho limene limamtsimikizira za ubwenzi wa mnzakeyo.

Pali ubwenzi pakati pa genteel rakes ndi amuna adziko lapansi ofotokozedwa ndi mmodzi wa iwo pamene akufotokozera wina, "Inde, kukhazikitsa ulemu wa Charlie ndikusunga ubwenzi wathu, ndinanama ngati njonda." Muubwenzi wapakati pa mbava ndi zigawenga zina, sikungoyembekezereka kuti wina azithandiza mnzake paupandu, ndikugawana mphulupulu monga momwe amalanda, koma kuti apitirire mopambanitsa kuti amuteteze ku lamulo kapena kuti atetezedwe. kumasulidwa kwake ngati amangidwa. Ubwenzi wapakati pa oyenda m’ngalawa, asilikali ndi apolisi umafuna kuti zochita za wina, ngakhale zilibe phindu kapena zochititsa manyazi, zizithandizidwa ndi kutetezedwa ndi wina kuti zimuthandize kugwira udindo wake kapena kusankhidwa kukhala wapamwamba. Kupyolera mu maubwenzi onsewa pali mzimu wapagulu womwe thupi lililonse kapena gulu limakhala nalo.

Pali ubwenzi wa anthu akuchigwa, okwera mapiri, osaka, oyendayenda ndi ofufuza, omwe amapangidwa ndi kuponyedwa kwawo pamodzi m'malo omwewo, akukumana ndi zovuta zomwezo, kudziwa ndi kulimbana ndi zoopsa zomwezo ndikukhala ndi zolinga zofanana. Ubwenzi wa ameneŵa kaŵirikaŵiri umapangidwa ndi malingaliro kapena kufunikira kotetezerana ku ngozi zakuthupi, mwa chitsogozo ndi chithandizo choperekedwa m’malo owopsa, ndi chithandizo cholimbana ndi zilombo kapena adani ena m’nkhalango kapena m’chipululu.

Ubwenzi uyenera kusiyanitsidwa ndi maubwenzi ena monga kudziwana, kuyanjana, ubwenzi, kudziwika, ubwenzi, comradeship, kudzipereka, kapena chikondi. Iwo omwe amawadziwa akhoza kukhala osayanjanitsika kapena otsutsana wina ndi mzake; Ubwenzi umafuna kuti aliyense akhale ndi chidwi ndi mnzakeyo. Kuyanjana kumafuna kugonana kovomerezeka pakati pa anthu ndi zosangalatsa zochereza; koma anthu ochezeka akhoza kulankhula zoipa kapena kuchita zinthu zotsutsana ndi anthu amene amawakonda. Ubwenzi sudzalola chinyengo choterocho. Ubwenzi ungakhalepo kwa zaka zambiri m’bizinesi, kapena m’magulu ena ofunikira kukhalapo, komabe iye anganyansidwe ndi kunyoza munthu amene ali naye waubwenzi. Ubwenzi sudzalola malingaliro oterowo. Kuzoloŵerana kumabwera chifukwa chodziwana mwapamtima kapena pogonana, zomwe zingakhale zotopetsa ndi zosakondedwa; palibe kuipidwa kapena kusakonda komwe kungakhalepo muubwenzi. Ubwenzi ndi mchitidwe kapena mkhalidwe umene wina ali nawo pamtima zokonda za mnzake, zimene mwina wina sangaziyamikire kapena kuzimvetsa; ubwenzi suli mbali imodzi; ndizofanana ndipo zimamvetsetsedwa ndi onse awiri. Ubwenzi ndi mayanjano aumwini ndi mayanjano, omwe amatha kutha pamene ma comrades asiyana; ubwenzi sudalira pa kucheza kapena kucheza nawo; Ubwenzi ukhoza kukhalapo pakati pa omwe sanawonepo wina ndi mzake ndipo amapirira, ngakhale kuti mtunda waukulu mumlengalenga ndi nthawi zingalowererepo. Kudzipereka ndi maganizo amene munthu amadzitengera kwa munthu aliyense, munthu kapena munthu; mkhalidwe umene amakhala wotanganidwa kwambiri, m’kugwirira ntchito, m’kukalamira kukwaniritsa zikhumbo zina, kapena m’kulambira Umulungu. Ubwenzi ulipo pakati pa malingaliro ndi malingaliro, koma osati pakati pa malingaliro ndi malingaliro abwino, kapena mfundo yosadziwika; ndiponso Ubwenzi si kulambira kumene mtima ukupereka kwa Mulungu. Ubwenzi umapereka maziko ofanana kapena ofanana kuganiza ndi kuchitapo kanthu pakati pa malingaliro ndi malingaliro. Chikondi kaŵirikaŵiri chimalingaliridwa kukhala chikhumbo champhamvu ndi chikhumbo, kutsanuliridwa kwachangu kwa malingaliro ndi chikondi pa chinthu chinachake, munthu, malo kapena kukhalapo; ndipo chikondi chimaganiziridwa makamaka ndi kugwiritsiridwa ntchito kusonyeza mmene akumvera kapena mmene akumvera, kapena ubale wachikondi umene ulipo pakati pa mamembala a banja, pakati pa okondana, kapena pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi. Ubwenzi ungakhalepo pakati pa ziŵalo za banja ndi pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi; koma ubale pakati pa okonda, kapena mwamuna ndi mkazi si ubwenzi. Ubwenzi sufuna kukhutiritsa malingaliro kapena ubale uliwonse wakuthupi. Ubale waubwenzi ndi wamalingaliro, wamalingaliro, ndipo si wamalingaliro. Chikondi cha munthu kwa Mulungu, kapena kwa Mulungu wa munthu, ndi maganizo a munthu wotsikirapo kuposa munthu wamkulu, kapena wa munthu wamphamvu zonse kwa yemwe ali ndi malire ndi wosakhoza kumumvetsetsa. Ubwenzi umayandikira kufanana. Ubwenzi unganenedwe kukhala chikondi, ngati chikondicho chilibe chilakolako; kumverera kapena chidziwitso cha ubale, wosachititsidwa khungu ndi zomangira za mphamvu; mkhalidwe umene lingaliro lapamwamba ndi lotsika likutha.

Palinso njira zina zimene mawuwa amagwiritsidwira ntchito, monga ubwenzi wa munthu ndi galu, kavalo, ndi nyama zina. Mgwilizano wapakati pa nyama ndi munthu, umene umaganiziridwa molakwika kukhala ubwenzi, ndi kufanana kwa chilengedwe m’chikhumbo, kapena kuyankha kwa chikhumbo cha nyama ku zochita za malingaliro a munthu pa icho. Nyama imamva zochita za munthu ndipo imayamikira ndi kulabadira maganizo ake. Koma likhoza kungoyankha ndi utumiki, ndi kukhala wokonzeka kuchita chimene chikhumbo chake chingathe kuchita. Nyamayo idzatumikira munthu, n’kuferatu m’ntchito yake. Koma komabe palibe ubwenzi pakati pa nyama ndi munthu, chifukwa ubwenzi umafuna kumvetsetsana ndi kuyankha kwa maganizo ndi maganizo, ndipo palibe kuyankha koteroko kapena kulankhulana kwa ganizo kuchokera ku nyama kupita kwa munthu. Nyamayo imatha kusonyeza bwino maganizo a munthu kwa iye. Sizingamvetsetse ganizolo kupatula ngati likugwirizana ndi zofuna zake; sichingayambitse ganizo, kapena kupereka kwa munthu kalikonse ka m’maganizo. Kuyanjana pakati pa malingaliro ndi malingaliro kudzera m'malingaliro, kofunikira mu mgwirizano waubwenzi, sikutheka pakati pa munthu, malingaliro, ndi nyama, chikhumbo.

Chiyeso cha ubwenzi weniweni kapena wonyenga chili m’chikondwerero chopanda dyera kapena chadyera chimene munthu ali nacho mwa wina. Ubwenzi weniweni suli chabe gulu lachidwi. Pangakhale unansi pakati pa awo amene ali ndi chitaganya chokondweretsedwa, koma ubwenzi weniweni sulingalira za kupeza kanthu kaamba ka zimene wapatsidwa, kapena kubwezeredwa mwanjira iriyonse kaamba ka chimene wachitidwa. Ubwenzi weniweni ndiwo maganizo a munthu wina ndiponso kuchita zinthu ndi munthu wina kapena kaamba ka ubwino wake, popanda kulola lingaliro lililonse la zofuna za iye mwini kudodometsa zimene akulingalira ndi kuchitira mnzake. Ubwenzi weniweni umakhala pazifukwa zopanda dyera zimene zimabweretsa kuganiza ndi kuchita zinthu zopindulitsa wina, popanda kudzikonda.

Kuchita kapena kunamizira kuchita zofuna za wina, pamene chifukwa cha kuchita zimenezo n’cholinga chofuna kudzikhutiritsa ndi kudzikonda, sikuli ubwenzi. Izi kaŵirikaŵiri zimasonyezedwa pamene pali gulu la zokonda ndi pamene okhudzidwa amalankhula za ubwenzi wawo kwa wina ndi mnzake. Ubwenzi umakhalapo mpaka wina akuganiza kuti sakulandira gawo lake, kapena mpaka winayo akana kuvomerezana naye. Ndiyeno maunansi aubwenzi amaleka ndipo chimene chimatchedwa ubwenzi chinalidi chikhumbo chofuna kudzifunira. Pamene wina ali ndi unansi wotchedwa ubwenzi ndi wina kapena ena chifukwa mwa ubwenzi woteroyo angapeze mapindu, kapena kukhutiritsidwa zokhumba zake, kapena kupeza zokhumba zake, palibe ubwenzi. Umboni wosonyeza kuti ubwenzi wodzinenera suli ubwenzi, umaonekera pamene wina afuna kuti mnzake achite cholakwika. Ubwenzi ungakhalepo pamene mmodzi kapena onse aŵiri kapena onse adzapeza phindu mwaubwenzi; koma ngati zofuna za iwo eni ndi zomwe zimawagwirizanitsa, ubwenzi wawo ukuoneka. Muubwenzi weniweni aliyense adzakhala ndi zofuna za mnzake pamtima osati zochepa kuposa zake, chifukwa lingaliro lake la wina ndi lalikulu komanso lofunika kwambiri kuposa zofuna ndi zokhumba zake, ndipo zochita zake ndi zochita zake zimasonyeza kachitidwe ka maganizo ake.

Ubwenzi weniweni sudzalola kuti moyo wa bwenzi uike pangozi kuti upulumutse wake. Munthu amene amayembekeza kapena kufuna kuti mnzakeyo aike moyo wake pachiswe, kunama, kutaya ulemu wake, kuti apulumutsidwe ku zoopsa zilizonsezi, si bwenzi, ndipo ubwenzi suli kumbali yake. Kudzipereka kwakukulu kungakhale ndipo kumasonyezedwa muubwenzi pamene kudzipereka kuli kofunika, monga ngati chisamaliro chautali ndi choleza mtima cha zofooka zakuthupi kapena zamaganizo za wina ndi kugwira naye ntchito moleza mtima kuthetsa kuvutika kwake ndi kumthandiza m’kulimbitsa maganizo ake. Koma ubwenzi weniweni sumafuna, umaletsa, kuchitidwa choipa chakuthupi kapena chamakhalidwe kapena chamaganizo, ndipo kudzipereka kungagwiritsiridwe ntchito kufikira pamlingo umene kudzipereka muubwenzi kumafuna kuti palibe cholakwika chilichonse. Ubwenzi weniweni uli wa muyezo wapamwamba kwambiri wa makhalidwe abwino ndi kuona mtima ndi kupambana kwamaganizo kotero kuti kulola kudzipereka kapena chikhoterero kufika pamlingo umenewo mu utumiki wolingaliridwa wa bwenzi ngati kungavulaze ena.

Munthu angakhale wofunitsitsa kudzimana ndipo angataye ngakhale moyo wake chifukwa cha ubwenzi, ngati nsembe yoteroyo ili ndi cholinga chabwino, ngati mwa nsembe yoteroyo sapereka zofuna za amene ali ogwirizana naye, ndipo ngati iye sapereka zofuna zake. zofuna za moyo zimaperekedwa kokha, ndipo iye sachoka pa ntchito. Amasonyeza ubwenzi weniweni ndi waukulu kwambiri amene sadzavulaza aliyense kapena kuchita cholakwa, ngakhale chifukwa cha ubwenzi.

Ubwenzi udzachititsa munthu kufika m’maganizo kapena kuchita zinthu ndi bwenzi lake, kumuthandiza m’masautso, kumutonthoza m’masautso, kumuchepetsera nkhawa ndiponso kumuthandiza pamene akufunika thandizo, kumulimbikitsa m’mayesero, kukhala ndi chiyembekezo. kutaya mtima, kumuthandiza kuchotsa kukayikira kwake, kumulimbikitsa pamene ali m’mavuto, kumuuza mmene angachotsere mantha ake, mmene angagonjetsere mavuto ake, kufotokoza mmene angaphunzirire pa zokhumudwitsa ndi kusandutsa tsoka kukhala mwaŵi, kumuchirikiza kupyola mikuntho. moyo, kumulimbikitsa kukwaniritsa zatsopano ndi malingaliro apamwamba, komanso, osazengereza kapena kuletsa zochita zake zaulere m'malingaliro kapena mawu.

Malo, malo, zochitika, mikhalidwe, chikhalidwe, chikhalidwe ndi udindo, zimawoneka ngati zoyambitsa kapena zoyambitsa mabwenzi. Amangowoneka ngati ali. Izi zimangopereka zoikamo; sizimayambitsa ubwenzi weniweni ndi wokhalitsa. Ubwenzi umene umapangidwa ndi kupirira tsopano ndi zotsatira za chisinthiko chautali. Sizongochitika mwamwayi, ngakhale kuti mabwenzi angayambe tsopano ndi kupitirizidwa ndi kukhala ndi moyo kosatha. Mabwenzi amayamba chifukwa choyamikira. Kuyamikira sikungothokoza kokha kumene wopindula amakhala nako kwa wopindulayo. Sichiyamikiro choperekedwa ku mabungwe achifundo chifukwa cha zachifundo, kapenanso kumva kuyamikira kolakwika kumene kumamveka kapena kusonyezedwa ndi wonyozeka pa zomwe mkulu wake wamupatsa. Kuyamikira ndi chimodzi mwa makhalidwe abwino kwambiri ndipo ndi khalidwe lofanana ndi mulungu. Kuyamikira ndiko kudzutsa maganizo ku chinthu china chabwino chonenedwa kapena kuchitidwa, ndi kusadzikonda ndi kumasuka kwa mtima kwa amene wachita. Kuyamikira kumakweza magulu onse kapena maudindo. Kapolo angakhale ndi chiyamikiro kaamba ka mwini thupi lake chifukwa cha kukoma mtima kwinakwake, monga momwe wanzeru amayamikira mwana kaamba ka kumudzutsa ku lingaliro lomveka bwino la gawo lina la vuto la moyo ndipo Mulungu amayamikira munthu amene amaonetsa umulungu. cha moyo. Kuyamikira ndi bwenzi la ubwenzi. Ubwenzi umayamba pamene maganizo amatuluka m’chiyamikiro kwa wina kaamba ka kukoma mtima kosonyezedwa ndi mawu kapena zochita. Kukoma mtima kwina kudzasonyezedwa, osati mwa kulipira, koma chifukwa cha kusonkhezeredwa kwa m’kati; chifukwa zochita zimatsatira zikoka za mtima ndi ganizo ndipo winayo nayenso amakhala woyamikira chifukwa cha kuwona mtima kwa chiyamikiro cha zimene wachita; ndipo chotero, aliyense akumva kuwona mtima ndi kukoma mtima kwa mnzake kwa iyemwini, kumvetsetsana ndi m’maganizo kumakula pakati pawo ndi kukhwima kukhala ubwenzi.

Mavuto adzabuka ndipo ubwenziwo nthawi zina umayesedwa kwambiri, koma ubwenziwo udzakhalapo ngati kudzikonda sikuli kolimba kwambiri. Ngati pabuka zinthu zomwe zimasokoneza kapena kuwoneka ngati zikusokoneza ubwenzi, monga kupita ku malo akutali, kapena ngati mikangano ikabuka, kapena ngati kuyankhulana kutha, komabe, ubwenziwo, ngakhale ukuwoneka kuti wasweka, suli kumapeto. Ngakhale kuti palibe amene sayenera kumuwona winayo asanamwalire, ubwenziwo, utayamba, sunathe. Maganizo amenewo akadzabadwanso m’moyo wotsatira kapena wa m’tsogolo, adzakumananso ndipo ubwenzi wawo udzayambiranso.

Pamene asonkhanitsidwa pamodzi, mawu ena a ganizo mwa mawu kapena zochita amadzutsanso malingaliro awo ndipo adzamva ndi kuganiza monga achibale, ndipo m’moyo umenewo maulalo amphamvu angapangidwe mu unyolo waubwenzi. Apanso maubwenzi amenewa adzakonzedwanso ndipo mwachiwonekere adzasweka ndi kupatukana, kusagwirizana kapena imfa; koma pa kukonzanso kulikonse kwa ubwenzi mmodzi wa mabwenzi adzazindikira mosavuta winayo ndipo ubwenzi udzakhazikitsidwanso. Sadzadziwa za mabwenzi awo m'matupi awo akale m'miyoyo ina, komabe kumverera kwachibale sikudzakhala kocheperako kutero. Maubwenzi amphamvu omwe amawoneka kuti angochitika mwamwayi kapena pakudziwana kwakanthawi, komanso komwe kumapitilira kusinthasintha kwa moyo, sikuyambira pazochitika zongochitika mwangozi. Msonkhanowo sunali wangozi. Unali ulalo wowonekera mumndandanda wautali wa zochitika zomwe zimapitilira m'miyoyo ina, ndipo msonkhano watsopano ndi kuzindikira ndi kumverera kwachibale kunali kutenga ubwenzi wakale. Zochita zina kapena mawu a m'modzi kapena onse awiri zingayambitse kumverera kwa mnzako ndipo zidzapitilira pambuyo pake.

Kuwonongeka kwa ubwenzi kumayamba pamene wina achitira nsanje chisamaliro cha mnzake, kapena chisamaliro cha bwenzi lake kwa ena. Ngati amasirira bwenzi lake chifukwa chokhala ndi katundu, zomwe wachita, luso kapena luso, ngati akufuna kuika bwenzi lake pamthunzi kapena kumuposa iye, malingaliro a nsanje ndi kaduka adzayambitsa kapena agwiritse ntchito kukayikira ndi kukayikira zomwe zingatheke, ndi kudzikonda. adzawatsogolera pa ntchito yawo yowononga ubwenzi. Ndi kupitiriza ntchito yawo adzatchedwa kukhalapo zotsutsana za ubwenzi. Kusakonda kudzawoneka ndipo kudzakula kukhala uchimo. Izi nthawi zambiri zimatsatiridwa, pomwe kudzikonda kuli kolimba, ndi kusokoneza ubwenzi.

Kuponderezedwa kwa ubwenzi kumayamba pamene cholinga cha munthu ndicho kugwiritsa ntchito mnzakeyo popanda kumuganizira moyenerera. Izi zimaonekera mu bizinesi, pamene wina angakonde kuti bwenzi lake lizigwira ntchito kuti amutumikire m'malo mokakamiza kuti athandize bwenzi lake. M’zandale zimaonekera pamene munthu amayesa kugwiritsa ntchito mabwenzi ake m’zokonda zake popanda kufunitsitsa kuwatumikira m’zawo. M'magulu ocheza nawo kuzunzana kwaubwenzi kumawonekera pamene wina wa iwo omwe amatchana mabwenzi, akufuna ndi kuyesa kugwiritsa ntchito mabwenzi kaamba ka zofuna zake. Kuchokera pa pempho lofatsa lakuti wina achite kanthu kena kakang’ono chifukwa cha ubwenzi, ndipo pamene kuchitako kuli kotsutsana ndi chikhumbo cha mnzakeyo, kugwiritsira ntchito molakwa ubwenzi kungapitirire ku pempho la wina kuchita upandu. Pamene winayo apeza kuti wodzinenera kukhala mabwenzi akungofuna kupeza mautumiki ake, ubwenziwo umafooka ndipo ukhoza kutha, kapena ungasinthe n’kukhala wosiyana ndi ubwenzi. Ubwenzi suyenera kuchitiridwa nkhanza.

Chofunika kuti ubwenzi ukhalebe wolimba n’chakuti aliyense ayenera kukhala wofunitsitsa kuti mnzakeyo akhale ndi ufulu wosankha m’maganizo ndi m’zochita zake. Mkhalidwe woterowo ukakhalapo muubwenzi umatha. Pamene chidwi chaumwini chikuyambika ndi kupitirizidwa, ubwenziwo ukhoza kusintha n’kukhala chidani, chidani, chidani, ndi chidani.

Ubwenzi ndi kukoma mtima kwa malingaliro ndipo wakhazikika ndikukhazikika pa chiyambi chauzimu ndi umodzi wotsiriza wa zolengedwa zonse.

Ubwenzi ndi ubale womwe umakhalapo pakati pa malingaliro ndi malingaliro, womwe umakula ndikukhazikika chifukwa cha cholinga cha munthu m'malingaliro ndi m'machitidwe kuti akwaniritse zofuna za mnzake.

Ubwenzi umayamba pamene mchitidwe kapena lingaliro la wina limapangitsa malingaliro ena kapena malingaliro ena kuzindikira chikondi pakati pawo. Ubwenzi umakula pamene malingaliro amawongolera ndipo zochita zimachitidwa popanda kudzikonda komanso ubwino wamuyaya wa ena. Ubwenzi umapangidwa bwino ndikukhazikitsidwa ndipo sungathe kusweka pamene ubalewo umadziwika kuti ndi wauzimu mu chikhalidwe ndi cholinga chake.

Ubwenzi ndi umodzi mwamaubwenzi akuluakulu komanso abwino kwambiri. Imadzutsa ndikutulutsa ndikukulitsa mikhalidwe yowona komanso yabwino kwambiri yamalingaliro, kudzera muzochita zamunthu. Ubwenzi ukhoza ndipo ulipodi pakati pa anthu amene ali ndi zokonda zaumwini ndi amene zikhumbo zawo ziri zofanana; koma zokopa zaumwini kapena kufanana kwa chikhumbo sikungakhale maziko a ubwenzi weniweni.

Ubwenzi kwenikweni uli unansi wa malingaliro, ndipo ngati chomangira chamaganizo chimenechi sichingakhalepo sipangakhale ubwenzi weniweni. Ubwenzi ndi umodzi mwa maubwenzi okhalitsa komanso abwino kwambiri. Ziyenera kuchita ndi mphamvu zonse za malingaliro; zimapangitsa zabwino mwa munthu kuchitira bwenzi lake, ndipo, potsirizira pake, zimapangitsa kuti zabwino mwa mmodzi achite kwa anthu onse. Ubwenzi ndi chimodzi mwa zinthu zofunika kwambiri, ndipo zimalimbikitsa zinthu zina zonse, pomanga khalidwe; imayesa malo ofooka ndikuwonetsa momwe angawalimbikitsire; limasonyeza kupereŵera kwake ndi mmene lingaziperekere, ndipo limatsogolera m’ntchitoyo ndi kuyesayesa kosadzikonda.

Ubwenzi umadzutsa ndi kuitanitsa chifundo pamene panalibe chifundo chochepa kapena palibe m’mbuyomo, ndipo chimaika bwenzi logwirizana kwambiri ndi mazunzo a munthu mnzake.

Ubwenzi umatulutsa kukhulupirika mwa kukakamiza chinyengo ndi zophimba zabodza ndi kunyezimira kuti zigwe, ndi kulola chikhalidwe chenichenicho kuwonedwa monga momwe chiriri, ndi kudziwonetsera mwanzeru mu chikhalidwe chake. Probity imapangidwa mwaubwenzi, pakuyimilira mayeso ndikutsimikizira kukhulupirika kwake muzoyesa zonse zaubwenzi. Ubwenzi umaphunzitsa zoona m’maganizo ndi m’kalankhulidwe ndi m’zochita, mwa kuchititsa maganizo kulingalira za chimene chili chabwino kapena chabwino kwa bwenzilo, mwa kuchititsa bwenzi kunena zimenezo popanda kutsutsa zimene amakhulupirira kuti n’zoona ndiponso kuti mnzakeyo angasangalale nazo. Ubwenzi umakhazikitsa kukhulupirika mwa munthu podziwa ndi kusunga zinsinsi. Kupanda mantha kumawonjezeka ndi kukula kwa ubwenzi, ndi kupanda kukaikira ndi kusakhulupirirana, ndi kudziwa ndi kusinthana kwa chifuniro chabwino. Ubwino wa nyonga umakhala wa mphamvu ndi woyera pamene ubwenzi ukupita patsogolo, ndi kuchitapo kanthu pothandiza ena. Ubwenzi umayamba kusabwezera mwa munthu, mwa kukhazika mtima pansi mkwiyo ndi kuthamangitsa maganizo oipa, mkwiyo kapena njiru ndi poganizira zabwino za mnzake. Kusavulaza kumatchedwa ndi kukhazikitsidwa mwaubwenzi, mwa kusakhoza kwa munthu kuvulaza bwenzi lake, mwaubwenzi umene umasonkhezera ubwenzi, ndi mwa kusafuna kwa bwenzi kuchita chirichonse chimene chingavulaze mnzakeyo. Kupyolera muubwenzi kuwolowa manja kumalimbikitsidwa, m'chikhumbo chogawana ndi kupereka zabwino zomwe munthu ali nazo kwa mabwenzi ake. Kupanda dyera kumaphunziridwa mwa ubwenzi, mwa kugonjera momasuka ndi mokondwera zokhumba za bwenzi lake. Ubwenzi umayambitsa kukulitsa kudziletsa, mwa chizolowezi chodziletsa. Ubwenzi umayambitsa ndi kulimbitsa kulimba mtima, mwa kuchititsa munthu kukumana ndi zoopsa molimba mtima, kuchita zinthu molimba mtima, ndi kuteteza molimba mtima cholinga cha wina. Ubwenzi umalimbikitsa chipiriro, mwa kuchititsa munthu kupirira zolakwa kapena zoipa za bwenzi lake, kulimbikira kuzisonyeza kwa iye pamene kuli koyenera, ndi kupirira nthaŵi yofunikira kaamba ka kugonjetsa kwawo ndi kusandulika kukhala mikhalidwe yabwino. Ubwenzi umathandiza kukula kwa kuyenera, kulemekeza wina, ndi chilungamo ndi chiyero ndi moyo wapamwamba zomwe ubwenzi umafuna. Kupyolera mu ubwenzi kumapezedwa mphamvu ya chithandizo, mwa kumvetsera ku zovuta za munthu, kutenga nawo mbali m’zosamalira zake, ndi kusonyeza njira yogonjetsera mavuto ake. Ubwenzi umachirikiza chiyero, mwa kufunitsitsa kukhala ndi zolinga zapamwamba, mwa kuyeretsa maganizo a munthu, ndi kudzipereka ku malamulo amakhalidwe abwino. Ubwenzi umathandizira kukulitsa tsankho, mwa kuchititsa munthu kufunafuna, kudzudzula ndi kusanthula zolinga zake, kutsutsa, kupenda ndi kuweruza malingaliro ake, ndi kutsimikizira zochita zake ndi kuchita ntchito zake kwa bwenzi lake. Ubwenzi umathandiza munthu kukhala ndi makhalidwe abwino, pofuna makhalidwe abwino kwambiri, kukhala ndi makhalidwe abwino ndiponso kukhala ndi moyo mogwirizana ndi zolinga zake. Ubwenzi ndi mmodzi wa ophunzitsa maganizo, chifukwa amachotsa zobisika ndipo amafuna kuti maganizo awone ubale wake wanzeru ndi wina, kuyeza ndi kumvetsa ubale umenewo; kumapereka chidwi pamalingaliro a ena ndikuthandizira pakupanga kwawo; kumapangitsa malingaliro kusinthidwa, kukhala ofanana ndi olinganizika bwino mwa kukhazika mtima pansi kusakhazikika kwake, kuyang'ana kugwira ntchito kwake, ndi kuwongolera kamvekedwe kake. Ubwenzi umafuna m’maganizo kulamulira chipwirikiti chake, kugonjetsa kukaniza kwake, ndi kutulutsa dongosolo la chisokonezo ndi chilungamo m’malingaliro ndi chilungamo m’kuchita.

(Pomaliza)